Making friends is one thing I can say that I’m very good at. We may meet today and start being friends today. It does not really mean we’d be very close but we can be good friends.
Also, one thing I always have in my mind is that no one is perfect so I shouldn’t expect my friends to be very perfect or always do things to satisfy me. At the same time, I know I’m not perfect too so we all just have to manage each other.
Also, there are so many things I can’t take in either a friendship or any kind of relationship and can make me cut off such a person.
I’d love to give you a story on how I cut someone off and I’m never hoping to have that bond again or even trust the person.
Before I go on with my story, cutting off someone to me does not necessarily mean that I wouldn’t have anything to do with the person again. It simply means that there will be limits to the things I’d do with the person.
A time I cut someone off
Two years ago when I was in the university, I had so many friends who we used to go out together. We went to parties and @rafzat is also one of my friends. One day, I followed one of my friends out. While we were coming back, she decided to stop by at a a guy’s place and he entertained us.
After a few minutes, she stepped out saying she was coming and I was the only one remaining with that guy. Would you believe that he tried touching me? So that gave me the mindset that my so called friend took me to his place to set me up. I felt bad and didn’t say anything.
Fortunately, his plan was not success and I left there.
I cut that friend off immediately and since that day, I never had anything to do with her. This doesn’t mean that I stopped talking to her. It only meant that I no longer trust her and I don’t want to have anything serious or confidential with her anymore.
Would I like to rebuild that bond?
Honestly, I would not like to rebuild that bond. If a friend could do that to me, it means she could actually poison me too. That kind of a person should never be trusted no matter what happens.
If a friend whom I trust so much can do that to me while we’re in school and I wasn’t even made yet, it means if I become fortunate later on and we’re still close, she could kill me or do more than that to me.
That’s bad and I don’t think I would love to rebuild that bond. Anyway, I’m glad I cut her off and I have forgiven her already. We talk but not close friends anymore.
