A relationship is sweet when you are with the right person, but being in a relationship with someone playing with you hurts a lot and it is better to be single than to find yourself in such a situation.
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No one is perfect, and this is why we need to ignore some of our partner's flaws but there are some things we must never ignore no matter how much we love the person because, in the end, those things will end up separating us.
Check out the list of red flags I won't tolerate from my partner.
There is no way I would trust my partner if she has many friends who are guys because there is a possibility she could develop feelings for any of them at any time, there is no relationship without its problem, partners do fight, Imagine having a dispute with my bae and she went to find solace in one of her male friends, Ladies are emotional being and she could lose herself to temptation... Trusting a lady with many guy friends is giving her a chance to make you a fool because it would be difficult to catch her red-handed as she could easily tell you the guy you saw her with is her friend.
I don't like my partner keeping friends talkless of guy friend because I am a jealous lover, moreover, I don't want a situation where friends are the ones controlling my relationship which is what is happening in the relationship world nowadays, especially the ladies friendship.... they would advise her to do things they can't or won't do to their own partner, bad advice ...
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Some people are professionals when it comes to gas lighting, you will hear statements like why are you invading my privacy, you do not have the right to check my phone, don't you have your own my guy don't fall for this, a lady that does not have a cockroach in her cupboard won't try to hide her phone from you.
I am not the kind that loves to check his partner's phone, I have my partner's password and my face can even open her phone but you won't see me picking up her phone to check her messages or anything else because the fact she gave me her password and I also have access to the phone means there is nothing to hide, but if my partner is doing everything possible to keep me away from her phone, I need to soothsayer to tell me there is fire on the roof and I need to do something about it asap!
You keeping it from me would even increase my curiosity to find out what exactly you have on that phone.
Many men desire to be in a relationship with a virgin but it is not part of my criteria for choosing a partner, it is okay not to be a virgin, and don't lie about it... Body count matters to me though, I can't be in a relationship with a lady with many body counts, why will you have many body counts, is it that your character is bad that is making all the guys leave you, or Ashewo dey your eyes which is making you jump from one man to the other...
Some ladies would ask people not to judge them by their past but the past really matters, you can't expect an innocent guy to make you his partner when you spend your youth running after many boys...
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