We all have different temperaments, and I believe those traits are what we use to classify other people as being calm or nosy. In today's blog, I will be sharing with you some personal experiences, and why I am not too quick to judge people as being nosy.
The truth is that some people are actually nosy in the real life, they tend to know all the information in their surroundings and always want to learn what's going on and which of their friends. Sometimes, this can be a good trait because I always have someone to check up on me and share ideas with. people who act like this with pure intention and those who act the same way with negative intentions can hardly be separated because we are all human and we don't know what the next person has in mind for us.
I love having nosy people around, and the reason is that the first friend I had was a very nosy guy. I mean very nosy, the reason I was able to have so many friends now and develop my communication skills was because of him. He is my best friend. Some people don't like him because of his nosy act, he always seems to be everywhere and this actually made one of my friends dislike him at first but as time went on, they all came to love him.
If there is a gathering or get-together, and my friend (Daniel) is not around, the gathering always feels incomplete and boring.
In the few years I have spent on earth, I have met some nosy people which I dislike because of their dishonest traits, and others which I always like to have around.
Some people are so calm, if you don't talk to them, they won't talk to you. If you keep two people of the same personality in one house, the only word they might say to each other is "Good morning, and food is ready" (Someone like me)
Sometimes, I might want to do something but I wouldn't just do it because it feels like so much work but when Daniel start his talking and talking, I would have no choice but to do it.
Like I said from the beginning, people are born with different temperaments and this is what shapes their personality. Some of these personalities are learned due to the people they surround themselves with or the environment they are in.
I might be the calm, handsome-looking guy but with the right environment and set of people, the talkative and nosy fash will come out. I will laugh like there are no worries in the world and I will talk without minding what's going to happen because I am in a safe place with the people I trust.
I am a calm person around some set of people, and I can be nosy given the right environment and people surrounding me.
People tagged as nosy people are also people that can learn and be corrected. If a friend or someone you know is being nosy, a constructive correction can help the person become a better version of themselves and this will help you both. Don't ever insult a person as being nosy or push them away. Let's accept them for who they are.
Thanks for reading.
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