It's better to cut off some relationship

Every human is unique, and everyone can think differently from each other. It's such a thing that makes our lives interesting. Instead of differences, we try to find similarities and try to be friendly with others. It's not necessary to find similarities all the time to be friendly, but it's the thing we want most of the time.

During my entire life, we have met with many people, and some personalities are so impressive and attractive to us that we love to spend more time with them. We considered them to be good people. At the same time, some people try to be friendly with us just to take advantage of us. We try to avoid them as much as possible, but it's not so easy because those people stay with us and pretend to be our well-wishers. So identifying them is the most difficult task, and when we can identify them most of the time, it's late, but if we can identify them early, it's good, and that helps us to avoid many troubles. Cutting off our relationship with them is the best thing we can do.

Some people can be harmful to us, and it's not necessary; they are bad people. Their thoughts and suggestions are sometimes enough to harm us or our lives, and it's advisable to stay far from those people. It's not necessary if they are good or bad; as long as their thoughts and suggestions are harmful, we will face the consequences. In my life, I met several people and cut off my relationship with them because of some of their actions and behaviors.

I hope you can remember that I was in one of my distant relatives houses for 5 years because of my educational purpose. In the first three years, everything was pretty good, but in the last two years, many things have changed. My aunt, a distant relative, somehow tried to dominate me in the last 2 years. She was trying to give me a low feeling and trying to prove that I was a below-average person, and without their help, I would not be able to stay in town. I had a strong mentality, and such kind of words never made me feel worried because I knew my capabilities. To maintain a peaceful environment, I used to keep quiet and accept that she might be true. I don't know why she wasn't able to take it easily, even though I agree with what she said.

Actually, somehow she was trying to do mental torture to dominate me, but my easy acceptance made her quiet and stopped her while she expected me to deny it and continue that kind of conversation to make me feel low. I understood it, so I stopped her technically, as I knew her actions petty well. Within a few days, she understood that her strategy wasn't working on me so she changed the pattern and started to discuss my parents issues, blaming my mother for some behavior. Honestly, I felt angry because it was my parents matter and she should not be interfered with because she was an outsider in that case and she had no right to talk about it.

I guessed the possible reason behind it. She was trying to dominate me and gave me a low feeling because she wanted to make me dependent on them and stay in their home. And the reason was her greed for money, which she used to get from my father each month. Unfortunately, one day I became violent and made her understand I was not a kid and she wasn't capable enough to dominate me. After that incident, within a few weeks, I returned to my village from her home permanently. Whenever my father called her, she used to ask for money, and understanding her nature well, I cut off the relationship. I think such kind of greedy person doesn't deserve my concern and time. Since many years, I have been disconnected and never called her.