The Love language

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Love! I can't define it because It's not something that words can express, you simply express love by showing or acting it.

I can say that this is the most discussed topic in the whole universe, maybe second to money😄
everyone have a way of showing they love someone, some through touch, some through flattery, some through buying gifts and some by look or expressing themselves by words.

my own love language is a little different from the ones outlined above, when I love someone I shower them with my attention, not the type that suffocates but the type that makes you notice I love you, I'm not used to the conventional way of asking a lady out, not because I am shy but because I love creating friendship before starting a relationship.

I have said it before on the hive blockchain that I don't think you can love someone by just seeing them for the first time, you may like them but love at first sight is an over exaggerated word to me

you love someone regardless of who they are, you are able to bear thier inconsequential attitudes, you cherish and respect them and at the same time you find the courage to correct them anytime they go wrong damn the consequences.

many people would say the word I love you just to make someone feel better about themselves, what happens when God forbid the person had a fatal accident that deformed or decapitate them, would you still love them the same way you loved them.

love is a sacred word that should be used carefully, not loosely
Many people have gone down a very dark tunnel because at some point in thier life someone told them, I love you.

love is a beautiful thing and there are different types of it, but the two most common love is, real love and fake love, either way everyone will experience both at some point and we may even show both to people at some point too. True but bitter.

actions of course speaks louder than words, we should endeavor to show love by acting it rather than using words of mouth
Giving gifts are also ways of showing we are loved or we love someone, but this strategy has often been used to con people as people hardly resist someone who give gifts.

a good partner showers you with quality time but don't get it mixed up quality time and quantity time are two different things
a good partner may not have the luxury of quantity time with you but he/she will always strive to spend time with you

love is a beautiful thing and should be nourished with care

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That's just it, many people loose their way because this person said I love you to them.

Yep, we guys do that alot

It so sad that so many abuse the meaning of love and doesn't see the importance of nourishing with care

I swear, not only does so many abuse love but they also take it for granted

a psychologist friend says that love is the only thing that gives us stability

That psychologist is damn right

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