Forgiveness is an intentional decision of letting go of something, resentment and anger. And forgiveness means many things to many people depending on the perspective of viewing and judging things. Leaving a life nonchalant , really do spoil lots of things. Forgiveness is a decision you make within yourself. Also forgiveness sometimes do tell people the real you and the kind of person you're. People that have difficult in forgiving usually have a boring and moody life, their life is normally sad because they always have too much of bad moments.it usually make things to be bad for them, not because they are bad, but because they are always sad and lack forgiveness that's why things are bad for them.
The truth is if you find it difficult to forgive someone when someone offended you, you'll always find it difficult to even forgive yourself when you do something that is wrong. Forgiveness is not something easy to do sometimes especially, when the person is deeply hurt, but all the same, no matter how the situation might be you still have to learn how to forgive others and yourself.,because if you don't, you become everyone's topic. If you are the type that have a soft heart, to forgive someone won't be a problem for you. Imagine a life without forgiveness, how would this life look like. If God should say anybody that sin against him, he would not accept their apology, imagine where this world will be by now.
I'll be sharing you some steps you take in learning on how to forgive!!!
1. Acknowledge the pains
2. Think through things
3. Imagine being on the other side
4. Always remember God forgiveness
5. Reflect on biblically command
6. Let go of the hurt
7. Continue to forgive
8. Pray for the person who hurt you
Having difficulties in forgiving makes you to always dwell on the past and always spoil your present situation. Though sometimes the hurt is very deep, just like when parent betrays our trust, or when we're a victim of crime or when we've been harshly bullied... Let's talk about the keys to forgiveness!!!
1. Know what forgiveness is, and why it matters to forgive
2. Become forgivingly fit
3. Address your inner pain
4. Develop a forgiving mind through emphaty
5.Find meaning in your suffering
6. When forgiveness is hard, call others upon strengths
7. Forgive yourself
8. Develop a forgiven heart
If you can apply all this key to your life, forgiven someone will not be hard for you to do!!!
Reasons why you need to forgive!!!
Forgiveness help your health
Forgiveness free you
Forgiveness allow you to move forward
Forgiving reduce your stress level
Forgiven heals you from the pain
I'll just end my entry here, I hope you read, digest and apply all this to your life for you to see better improvement in yourself and your life
Thanks for reading through!!!