The College Illusion

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Education is the passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to those who prepare for it today.- Malcon X


The educational system in my country has been structured in such a way that you start learning right from a tender age, mostly from the age of 2 upwards. In my case, I started schooling at the age of 1 because my parents were the busy type. I think it was an advantage for me to start schooling at that age though.

I loved school very much but when I think about it, our educational system leaves us with little to no time to ourselves. I can say I’ve spent about 80% of my life so far in a classroom. I get that schooling is good but what if I want a one year break to just sit in my parents house and rest. Like my parents were even going to hear that.

Now, to the interesting part, when I got into senior high school which was an all girls school, I was younger than most of my mates and I didn’t even know all of the stuff most of them knew(if you know what I mean). I was very innocent then and the girls I was sitting with were always talking about boys and all of that. Innocent me would just sit there minding my business. Sometimes I would also join to listen to their stories. There was a time two of my classmates fought because one claimed the other had stolen her boyfriend. I was like ‘Eih’ in my head.😂

Nhaji in senior high- don’t laugh🙂

To make things worse one of our male teachers walked in during that particular fight. Even with him around these two girls wouldn’t stop fighting. It was that serious.😂 Since that incident , this teacher of ours would always advice us during his lessons and one thing he would always tell us was ‘focus on your books now because when you go to university all the nice guys will be there’. And to even make things worse, when we come to school late he would tell us to come early so that we can study and pass because when we get to the university we could sleep all we want, go to lectures when we feel like and do whatever we want.

Guys, they lied to us.😭 I agree that in university there’s more freedom as compared to senior high but it’s not as easy as it looks. You can’t even miss classes because you’re constantly trying to keep your grades up. And oh, there were so many guys but you wouldn’t even have time for them because it’s everyone for himself, God for us all.😂

Thinking that I actually believed all of those things this teacher said to us in high school is even funny. I should have known better but the good thing is, it also helped keep most of us on track because who didn’t want to go experience all of these great things we were being told happened in the university.😂


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My dear college life is the main cage,every of your actions has consequences, you miss class you are on your own, you play life you are on your own, result will come out🤣 that freedom they told us about was a serious set up🤣

You look beautiful during your high school days o, see how innocent she looks😂. I am still trying to recall, how old I was when I went to primary school, e fit reach five o🙈😂

A big setup indeed.😂 when you trail you’re own your own. Those friends you followed to cruise wouldn’t even care about you.

😂😂 oh I was fresh until I met real suffering in university. Now I’m out here looking older than my age.

Thanks for passing by.❤️

LoL. Which older? you wey I dey crush on self🤣🤣

i beg oo

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ybb brought me here🤣🤣🤣
You were friends with Ybb?
Eii they you’ve suffered 🤣🤣

That thing, when you get to university you’ll rest is a lie
And funny part is UDS is not a university 🤣

People are looking for their soulmates in high school and you’re laughing 😂

😂😂😂 YBB is just one funny person. He was my course mate and next door neighbour so you can imagine.

Uds is just for suffering and seeing surge pro max.😂

Soulmate that will leave you before you leave high school.😂😂

Then I’m sorry about all that you had to go through 😂😂
Because Ybb hmm😂😂

😂😂😂 things we do for your friends

I can relate, especially during the exams period, sometimes we do have two exams a day and you just be running up and down

Seriously, if you complain they will say you’re in university.

Like they don't even what to consider my brain right now is hot

You’ll be fine.😅

Sure I will 🤣🤣

You can’t even miss classes because you’re constantly trying to keep your grades up

Madam you're the one that carried grades on your head. Look at @yahuzah for example. Who dodged class more than him? But he's fine😂😂😂

😂😂 who school help bro? I can’t kill myself. Plus I learnt how to skip class form you

See what this one is also saying

😂 what did I say

What didn’t you say?

A boy said nothing 👁

Whatever

Who said he dodged class? He was the one even begging me to go to class.😂

The did lie to us 😂, there's freedom in the university but how you use it determines your grade.

I tell you,it’s like freedom with no freedom.😅

True they lied to us that there’s no freedom in university but mean while that’s why the main freedom lies, but then you need to maximize your time so you won’t end up going back home with bad grades.

😂😂if you go back home with bad grades you’ll go and meet your parents. University students know better so they’re able to handle themselves .

Yeah that’s true dear

Thanks for passing by.❤️

How would you post a throwback and tell us not to laugh? Things don’t work that way Ma.

And please they didn’t lie to us. At least not to me. Cause I know I was sleeping and skipping classes as much as I wanted to😂
The only thing about what your teacher said that’s not true is that we will find all the nice guys there. Cause I didn’t see them😂😂😂

😂🥲if no one will laugh I know you will.

Abi you’re a shark so .😂
Madam, God knows you even met your future husband there. Bye bye

I am a student and I can completely understand of how the image of university life that’s painted in high school often doesn’t match the reality. It’s funny how we’re told about the freedom and fun, but the truth is, university comes with its own set of challenges that lie in keeping up with grades, managing time and new responsibilities. Your story about your teacher’s advice reminded me of how we all get motivated in different ways, even if the expectations don’t align perfectly with reality. I recently discovered this creative Pinterest board filled with mysupergeek reviews and unique ideas. It’s a great reminder that education isn’t just about classrooms and books but also about finding new ways to grow and stay motivated.