In todays world, it’s really rare to experience genuine love because most people have their own agenda at the back of their minds. My gender today wants to be in a relationship for material things and stuff while the other gender also go into relationships to satisfy their needs. The dating pool is a mess at the moment, thanks to our generation. They said their eyes have open so, let’s have it as it is. 😅
Personally, I wouldn’t say I’m a regular person because getting me to fall for you is a full degree on its own.Once, a guy trying to pursue me told me my standards were too high and so I should lower them if not I would be single all my life. What I told him was, if I had lower standards he wouldn’t even take a second look at me and that was the truth. As a woman, I understand that times have changed and I also need to do something for myself and put myself up there. So, if a man can’t even realise and acknowledge that, then he’s not even worth my time because he doesn’t know what’s good for him.😄
Most people today look for the wrong things in their partners. I get that it’s important to marry a handsome man and all of that but I wouldn’t say it’s necessary. If he’s handsome and ticks all the other boxes, that’s a plus. Imagine marrying a handsome man who can’t even fend for you. You’d even start to see him to be ugly because a broke man is an ugly man, automatically.🤣
A few traits I look for in a potential partner which I think would be able to get me to open up to them is first of all, kindness. I can’t over emphasise how important it is to have a kind person as your partner. Some human beings can just be so heartless to the extent that you look at them and wonder if this is really the person you choose to be with. No matter the qualities a potential partner possess, I would always look out for a kind partner first.
Moving on, being thoughtful isn’t something everyone possesses. Some men can just do anything without even putting you in mind and how it would affect you. Being thoughtful as an individual and even more, a partner means that you actually have me in mind with every step you take. I wouldn’t want to be with someone who just does whatever he wants because he wants to regardless of its effect on us.
As a man, why should you be a mumu?😄 I don’t think I’d ever be able to relate with people who are not smart in my life. I’ve had people tell me I’m too smart and it scares them. Before you think, I’ve thought and I’m very good at reading people and being strategic. I’m an all round person and so I need someone who would match my energy or even more. My partner must be smart, in fact he should be over smart because why not?😄
There’s actually so much more that I look for in a partner but I believe that these three would be a start to locking me in. Some physical factors like height and all of that are just a plus because well, they just are.
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