Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. Our childhood and the type of experience we have growing up as kids play a vital role in the type of adult we grow up to be; most of the time, how we handle situations and react to situations all revolve around how we grew up and the type of people we grew up with. I have seen people suffer trauma all their lives because of their childhood experience; some people find it difficult to trust because of the type of neighborhood they grew up in. Almost 80% of how we react, behave, and do things actually depends on the type of childhood we had growing up.
Every child deserves to have a good childhood memory, but unfortunately many children are victims of bad childhoods, and it affects them and haunts them almost all their lives. Getting over the trauma one had as a child is very difficult, which is why it is better to avoid having a child suffer these traumas of bad childhood or ruin their childhood for them, as it will take a lot for them to heal.
As much as hurting people is bad, to some point it is better to hurt an adult than to hurt a child; an adult already knows what to do when hurt, and they realize that they have been hurt almost immediately, but when you hurt a child, sometimes it takes years before they even realize what you did to them left a scar, and at that point they will find it really difficult to forgive you or themselves; at that point it is already too late to heal, and they will be forced to live with it.
I have experienced child abuse in my neighborhood, and how bad this boy was treated, a boy who lost his parents, and his uncle offered to sponsor him and took him in, but his uncle's wife decided to make the house uncomfortable for him as she feels that way he would leave and let her and her children enjoy her husband's money in peace and not have others as partakers. Watching this happen in my neighborhood alongside my personal experience in an uncle's house, I really do not support letting another person take care of your child, as they will never love them like you would.
The little orphan boy was exposed to different dangers, he did all the chores in the house, she was a full house wife before his arrival but on his arrival she decided to start selling tomatoes and she had this boy hawk and make sure he sells the whole basket if tomatoes in two days so she can restock and if he fails to he is denied food for a whole day and even gets punished. He had us buying tomatoes whether we need it or not just so he can feel safe, sometimes he came to our house to eat, those that tried to challenge her she quarrelled and everyone had to step back and let her run her house how she wanted but trust me the abuse was intense and I already know the boys childhood is messed up already. We all have to avoid and do away with abuse, everybody is human, no point abusing anyone.
