Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. One thing I have come to realize is that humans will be humans, and there is no way on earth that you will stop humans from talking; sometimes the confidence people use to spread rumors leaves me in awe. People talk about something or someone they know very little about with so much confidence and even beating their chest; there is no way you can stop people from talking, so one thing I advise is just doing you. When you are too friendly, they complain and talk about how excessively friendly you are, and when you decide to stay on your own because of your type of person, they say you have pride or are too full of yourself that you don't want to relate or be open with them.
One of the most difficult things anyone can indulge in is dealing with humans; my lecturer will say animals are easier to control than humans, and sometimes I cannot blame him. When you go left, they want you to go right and criticize you for going left, and when you finally decide to go right, they do the same, and you are left wondering what they really want.
When they said humans are insatiable, it did not only mean about their wants and needs; it is also related to their behavior and that of others around them. There is no way that you would live a life that everyone around you would appreciate; there will always be someone who would criticize how you live, which is why I always advise people to just do them and what makes them happy instead of trying to please people or go for people's approval. Not everyone would approve of you, so just go with the approval of the few you have for doing you.
I am quite a quiet person and somehow shy, and for that reason I like to stay on my own and only talk to a few people who understand me and got close. I am quiet and shy but not with those I am comfortable around. With those I am comfortable around, I become the life of the party, but once outside or with people I do not know or am not comfortable around, I tend to go quiet and even avoid being talked to so I don't get involved or dragged into a conversation I do not want to be engaged in. Those close know me to be all friendly and jovial and funny, and I thought that is how everyone sees me until I started hearing rumors about me, people saying I am proud and full of myself, and for that reason I am selective of who I relate to and interact with.
I was shocked because that is not how it is; they judged from afar, and I could not help it. I tried to correct as many people as possible about my type of person; some got close and saw a different thing from what they were told, but it is all part of life. People get misjudged; sometimes we hear stories about ourselves, and we are left wondering how that story or rumor really came about.