When a colleague said to me, "You're humble to a fault," I took it as a compliment. But in my mind, I knew what was going on. "This comrade thinks I'm one quiet, reserved person that cannot hurt a fly." Oh my lord. If only they knew...
Okay. Hold on. You probably think the same thing. Olujay the tech bro that just minds his business, or maybe you're like @nkemakonam89 that thinks all that's in my head is robots. Or maybe you don't even know me at all. Oh well, it's not far from the truth. But there's a coat of many colors I have—not that my name's Joseph—and you haven't even seen all the colors.
First first... People can be very interesting. Just wait through all four seasons and observe. The people you think are very shy can be very bold and daring given the right circumstances. All those ones that do like they're James Bond, start a chat with them and see that they're very timid. You'll just be like, "Charleyy, leave 'have you eaten' and tell me you want to kidnap me from my parents and be my Romeo." Eyyy
Here's the thing. I get people have their different ways of doing things. What I don't get is how everything must always be serious in this life. I'll say I am generally a serious person, but come on, go a day without having one or two people laugh?? That can never be me! Never! Well, unless somebody kidnaps my laptop or phone.
Something I have learnt about interacting with people is that things can only get awkward or embarrassing at most, but nobody is going to put a knife on your neck if what you said isn't funny or smart, or whatever it may be. I'm not saying you should try so hard. Last last, nobody send you, but what's even worse is stressing over what others think.
If we have some kind of rapport, you'll definitely see that personality of mine that may make you laugh. Whether you vibe or not, it is you that know. My own life is not hard normal normal. Sha don't gimme dry energy, else I flee. Who has time for 'lol'? Sip some violence like @bipolar95
So anybody that thinks I'm just a serious person. Please, I really am a serious person, but just expect some teeth on the the side. If you don't gerrit, then forget abouritt.
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