Greetings friends of hive ❤️. Hope we are enjoying the week especially in sound health and positivity vibe. We should because thriving is part of life’s journey.
Thank you @hiveghana for another week to reflect on our lives and the dealings we encounter in life with people we are connected to in one way or the other. Because its very obvious we need others in the journey of life.
Red flags 🚩 are one thing that will never hide its face when its starts to surface because it comes visibly that if we are attentive, we must surely notice it without missing it especially in a person to person relationships. Be it marriage, boy girl, man to woman, or even the same sex relationships .
I hate to see red flags 🚩 in anything am doing with people because it immediately alerts me of how I should be aware of the person involved and creating suspicions which brings in mistrust. It could be in friendships or other dealings of live like in the office and business involvement which definitely we must get involved in the cause of moving ahead in life.
Although there is no relationship that is perfect in 💯 % but there some certain actions that portrays if a relationship especially that of romance will last or not since this kind of relationship involves emotional feelings than others that involves businesses. So romance relationships needs proper attention when it comes to red flags 🚩.
What Are The Things I Consider Red Flags 🚩
LIES:
This very red flag is one we must look out for in a relationship. It could be romance, the same sex friendship or in business dealings because transparency is very important in what we do with people being involved. Lying in a relationship is one thing that will alert us of how a person is not worth our involvement with because everything he or she tells you is the opposite. Don’t ever ignore this sign because it’s dangerous.
LOVE FOR MONEY:
Although I have always believed that when two are in a relationship they are to assist each other from time to time because love is reciprocal. But along the cause of being in the relationship, one person becomes so demanding of the other not minding wether he or she has enough to give, or if its even proper to demand in certain ways, this is a red flag 🚩 that shows you need to rethink the way forward.
ADVICE
Its very important that those in a relationship shares their problems within themselves to know how to help each other in resolving it. The saying that “two heads are better than one “ has been there for ages. And many who have succeeded believed in it. Listening to your partners advice is very important be it from the man or the woman. So once two people in a relationship can not take advice from each other, there will be room for a third party which endangers the relationship. We should look out for this red flag 🚩 at the beginning of a relationship
TRUST :
How can I not trust my boyfriend, girlfriend, future husband to be or even a business partner? This red flag is the most important. Trusting someone means you know all about the person’s personality and can defend him or her anywhere possible. So for me to be in a relationship with you I must have full confidence in you. Wherever this is lacking, it becomes very obvious that in the nearest future, things will never go accordingly because there are some certain things we should not ignore in a relationship if we must achieve it and be happy.
Thanks for reading friends ❤️❤️.
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