I was in class today when one of my coursemates told me about his experience with a lady he is planning to be in a relationship with... Her birthday happened a few days ago and he took his time to prepare food for her and also gave her small money as a gift for her birthday.
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An alert popped up on his phone when the lady was with it and she saw the money in his account and she was like so he had this kind of money in his account and only gave her that little as a birthday gift, I was disappointed the same way he was when the girl reacted in such a manner and I told him that lady belongs to the street.
She is already feeling entitled to his money at such an early stage, imagine how bad that can be the moment they start dating and the last thing any man wants to do now is impress a girl with money or try to find your way into her life by spending on her, it never ends well.
He also realized immediately that the lady is not someone she can plan long-term with, he is still struggling to secure a better future for himself and does not want to fall into the wrong hands, so he is already losing interest in making her his Gf.
Unfortunately a lot of ladies capitalized on men's money and it is the main criteria for them to choose a partner now, I feel bad and concerned for the men earning little money now because it will be so difficult for them to find a partner.
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Recently a man went in search of a job in a school with his certificate and he was offered 35 000 Naira to take physics and computer to 3 classes, imagine such a ridiculous amount for such a stressful task, but the stress is nothing, the main concern is the salary, in this economy, what can 35k solve? It is not even enough to feed himself for the month talkless of buying clothes and paying other bills, so how will such a man be able to take care of his partner.
How will such a man be able to take care of his gf who wants a wig, shoes, bags, and other things that make ladies attractive, of course, he won't be able which makes him less desired, and might find it difficult to find a partner... This is the dilemma of all broke men and also why some go into crimes but that reason is not enough to justify their involvement in crimes...
There is a partner for everyone, you just have to stick to your level, as a man still hustling to secure his future or earning less, you should not desire a sophisticated lady because she spends a lot of money looking the way she is, so everyone should make the right decision by choosing someone they can maintain or someone who is ready to build with them.
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