I have been seeing a lot of videos on social media, when a student signs out from a higher institution, she will make a post giving thanks to her mother, friends but I don't see the father's picture, same with when they want to talk about the people that made their year better, I don't see the father's picture, does it mean these people do not have a father or they just don't think it is worth it to appreciate him too.
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Most people are closer to their mother because she is affectionate, always calling and taking care of them, and she is the one you see around at home while the father is away. Some people blame their father for not showing them fatherly love as he is not always around, but it is not as if he is out there playing...
Everyone wants an easy life, all fathers will take care of their children and bond with them if only they had the money needed to do all that, they could not stay at home like the mothers because they have to go out to work and provide for the food the family will eat... Before you wake up in the morning, he has already dropped the money the family will spend on food and is out again to hustle to earn more money so his family won't suffer.
We see most of the sacrifices of the mother, how they follow us to school to beg the owner that we will pay soon, how they borrow money to pay it sometimes or buy food on credits, we see all this but we don't see where our father is doing hard labor to earn money to pay back all the debt.
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When a child becomes rich and builds a house, they will want their mother to start living with them and abandon the father... Some will send money to their mother and nothing to their father.
Some mothers even go the extra length to create a bad image of the father in the child's mind probably because he is not giving her enough or able to fund her extravagant lifestyle but he is still trying his best to make sure the family doesn't starve, he paid the bills!
Most people will not understand this post until they become a father too.
You are a man too when you become old like your father, will you be happy if your child treats you the same way you are treating your father now? if not, it is not too late if he is still alive, correct your mistakes, appreciate him, love him, take care of him.
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