Life doesn't leave anyone a bigger space unless you stand up and create your own space, taking care of yourself can be difficult, especially when you have no money left in your hand, nothing is free on this planet and the more someone wants free things, the more they are waiting for something that won't come.
Children don't understand what their parents have had to go through to pay their school fees, buy them clothes, feed them and make sure they are healthy all the time, until they grow up and become men, that's when they learn. "life is funny" is what most people in my city say, others say "it's not easy at all". But I also think about where this hard to break metric comes from.
I have been left alone several times because of some activities I have been called to, so I have learned half of what parents did to take care of themselves and also be there for every member of the family. I have a friend who says he won't get married until he has the money he wants, so that if he starts having children, he can provide for them in the best possible way, and if he doesn't have that kind of money, he will never think of getting married.
Someone next to us that day tells him that money does not come by much struggle, but sometimes it is grace, then If he put money before marriage, what if that amount of money does not come to him that time, sometimes, we grow ourselves and our family, when the wife puts her ideas into the household economy, two heads are better than one.
The truth is that parents struggle with the role they play in their family, but those roles should not intimidate you but you should see it as something normal because once you start living it, it will surely become part of you.
What they said reminded me that I have known people who got married not because they had too much money, these people live happily, with wonderfully grown up children, waiting until you have all your desires types of money can be a delay, what you need to get started, get started. To make money is time and focus on your hustle and you grow.