Welcome to my blog! I'll be talking about friends and friendship
This morning I wake up with talking about friends on my mind and I will be writing about it. We all have friends in our life. Indeed sometimes it becomes almost impossible to live a tasteful life without having a single friend. But, deciding who can be a good friend is not always easy.
At the same time choosing friends is not a kind of plan. A friend can be anyone but a real friend will stand by you and a real friend shares the good and the bad. The fake people make us learn the lesson and the real friend makes you so strong.
The reality is that there are many people, who after starting their professional or working career, miss their school life friends. I have also been asking myself that question, do you know why that is the case? Because it was the first time people were friendly and genuine since the friends that one meets at school. We select friends after intervals; we get fake friends, and real friends at times.
At times we don’t define it as good or bad we just have a friend with whom we can find around. It’s impossible to live alone and so we need a friend or friends. Friends are not only those who are always willing to support us. A friend also need help from us. A good bonding is something always bring something really good. That is why it is so wonderful to hear so many good friends planning something really good for society. That means friends can be seen as helping colleagues in work and also play and during other times.
A real friend can be a mental support if he or she cannot provide you with something else, then at least they can always give you encouraging words to make you better. And this is the definition of real friend to me. A friend who’s never capable of helping us with the financial support but who is always there for us during difficult moments or during rough times. This is the type of friend who is with you when the worst is to happen and when you need a shoulder to cry on. While a real friend will always be a blessing on the other hand a fake one will be a curse.
But the relevant question is, how will the real one and the fake one be determined? Well there no taste required because time will help you to find the real one. Even our life has periods of day and night thus in your best days, you may find that you have many friends, and you feel that no one is alone since many people like you Hence, one day, you wake up to find yourself in trouble, only to realize that few people are still with you In this moment, this is the best time to get real friends.
A friend is one person who will never misjudge you in any way, but instead accept the real person that you are. Ofcourse a friend can have right to correct you and even to rectify your mistakes also but he is not going to be much harsh. What does the life become when the company with friends is tasteful? Well, I think when friends can have fun and laugh then that is making the life really very tasty. As for friends they may pull leg and tease but they will never disregard your ability in front of other people.
Yes a friend may be rude at times but a friend also should have a heart to love and if they realize there’s mistake they know how to say sorry. According to some people there is no sorry and there is no thanks in friendship but sometimes a sorry could restore their friendship and thanks would strengthen their friendship. To my mind every relationship requires respect, At least if we are making jokes with our friends, we should respect them in our hearts.
A lot of people decide about a person by having a look at his or her friends but two totally different sort of person can be friends. It may not be possible all the times to have real friends so be cautious while selecting friends who you want to share your internal self with. If you have a real friend, he /she will never reveal your weakness or your secret whereas a fake friend will create more problem for you when he /she discovers your weak area. So we have to be more careful.
Take time to understand that how much your friend is trustworthy. Life is tasteless without friends specially when it time for celebration. We also like to share our good moments with those who are dear to us in life and friends are also our loved ones and some friends are like siblings and we can’t fully celebrate happiness without them. Friends are a part of our life and we need to learn to be a good friend as well, then we can also get a good one.
Having real friend is now question of chance as people linked to virtual life and they think this world is reliable when it is not. A social media can assist individuals to communicate to several types of people and we post our problems on social media which leads to more troubles for us because our lives and problems within those lives are not of public concern and some people take advantage of that as they are already aware of your frailties and issues. Consequently virtual friends are perfectly acceptable but not suitable to turn to in order to share everything.
