Mismatched and miserable

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It's funny how I was played like a fool, remembering how i went on a date with a marriage man, it's just too crazy for me to accept.

Back in 2023 when i was working as a web developer in a firm. I met with an interesting client, he looked like an interesting guy, like i mean his physique was well built and attractive, he looked like a really gentle man.

We started getting along so well, i helped him out with his designs. He actually came to design a website for his company, i mean he's the CEO himself. I love meeting up with rich people, so i was delighted to meet up with him. Finally, i was done with his job. Before he left, he requested for my phone number, i didn't hesitate to give it him.

The only reason i gave him my number was because he looked good, his dressing and grooming was on point. I always like guys who are nearly dressed, since he passed these qualities, giving him my number was a yes for me.

We started chatting regularly, he was always checking on me. He was just acting like an intentional man, now tell me who's not going to like such a man. During the weekends, he'd always take me out in dates. I always try to act classy because he is high profile.

During the whole two months we were close together, he never mentioned any other women whenever we were together, so i assumed there was non. Everything was going smoothly. He kept returning to our company to do more business, i was always happy to attend to him, he would always tip me and my other colleagues.

I kept our relationship a secret, it wasn't really a relationship because he haven't asked me out as at that time.

A total waste of time

One particular day, he organised a date for the both of us. I was happy, we went to an expensive restaurant. I asked the waiter for their menu list. I ordered for a sea food bowl, the next thing this guy said was..

"You have the same taste with my wife"

I was shocked, because he never mentioned to me that he was married or he has a wife. I asked him again to be sure i heard him clearly.

"Did you just say you have a wife?"
I asked .

" I'm married, and i have a son "
he replied with a wicked smile on his face.

I was so upset, he didn't even show concern. I froze for some minutes. Like why does he have to do this to me, he has been going about without having his wedding ring on. I felt so stupid, like why didn't he open up to me, about him being married, i would've backed out a long time ago.

I wasn't happy throughout my stay in the date, i just wanted to go home. I actually thought he was a cool guy, i never imagined he was a total opposite of who i think he is. He saw how moody i was, after he mentioned him being married .

"Babe are you angry?" He asked

"Angry?, is that supposed to be a question?" I replied

"There's absolutely nothing to be angry about, i just told you, you have the same taste with my wife, and all of a sudden you're being moody for no reason, besides it was a slip of tongue." He yelled.

I could only imagine how shameless he was. His action showed he wasn't remorseful at all. It was obvious he didn't want to tell me about his wife . I was so pissed, imagine how i wasted my time with him all these while, thinking it would yield something fruitful, not knowing i was planting my seed on a rock that would never germinate.

I walked away from the restaurant, he ran after me but i was fast enough to book a taxi driving across the road. When i got home, he kept calling my cell phone endlessly, but i refuse to take any of his calls.

I made sure i blocked him in all social media, i also warned him never to come to my place of work for any kind business. I can't imagine i've been going on a date with somebody's husband. That has to be the craziest date ever.

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I always enjoy your story, because it is very interesting and splendid, keep it up

Thank you for always reading. ❤️

No probs.

Some men are just shameless, his behavior also reveals how he treats his wife at home. Nice you ended it the relationship and blocked him as well

My dear i was happy i found out early o
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Some men of now a days are so shameless. Dressing or appearance of a man doesn't tell it all. You don't know and you never can tell what is in his mind ,his plans and motives .That is why , before getting to know someone, you have to first of all ask him questions about his home background. The man was not opened to you. He was hiding something in his mind that you didn't know or have a clue of. Some men are really heart breakers. Your story is so inspiring. Keep it up!!!🥰

My dear, i asked him personal questions , i was so curious so i wanted to know who he was in the inside. I even asked if he had a woman in his life he denied it totally.

I'm glad it's in the past now, thanks for stopping by ❤️🌻

This was truly a date gone wrong but it was also a blessing in disguise. During the dinner he revealed the truth and did not expect you to be upset. Clearly his intentions towards you were different from your expectations. It is good that you found out sooner than later.

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It was indeed a blessing in disguise, I'm glad i didn't go further with him before i realise who he truly was.

Thank you so much for reading through ❤️

Actually, your story is good. One thing is for sure, he might have been attracted to you, may be through the way you attended to him as regards office setting and moral background. He was trying to appreciate you off the office setting. He really knows exactly what he was doing and never told you anything.
It is left for you to know him even before deciding to go out with him from the first day. Ask him (them) questions, so that you don't misinterpret the men that would lead to their giving you a funny name.
I advise you be mindful of your actions and inactions in their presence as a young lady.

I asked him questions, i mean personal questions, if he had a woman in his life, he lied to me. Well it's in the past now.

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You are welcome, sweetheart.

Wow , that must have been a shocking experience for you, is good that you found out and stepped away from the situation, you did the right thing,and it just show the kind of person you're.someone with integrity.some people might not have handled it this well.thanks for sharing your experience,is a reminder that things aren't always what the seem at first.

You are even lucky that you haven't gone far with the relationship before finding out this truth. It would be a total waste of time building a relationship on a rock indeed. Your action was commendable after the discovery

I'm glad i walked out on time.

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Most men do disguise themselves outside but once they're close to their house or wife, they will put on their ring. But wait o, from my observation, the guy didn't mention anything to you like I love you or want something like..... From you or did he? If no, you would have sit and listen to him without feeling somehow.

I forgot to mention in the post, he'd tell me things like, I'm the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, he can't do with me, I'm the love of his life.

My dear, i thought all these were true. I'm glad i found out very early, these whole friendship thing lasted for 3 months.

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Even though asking questions might seem like you're invading their privacy I think you should ask certain questions especially when you wanna get your heart involved.