BOUNDARIES

in #hive-17768216 days ago

Hello beautiful people. Your problem may be that you are too open; someone can meet you in 30mins and they will know exactly who you are, all you have been through, what you can do, your entire history and all.

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Sometimes you see this as you are being an honest and transparent person without anything to hide. Sometimes you are just too excited to have someone talk with you, so you over share just to keep the conversation alive and going.

Some of you even have friends, you've been together for several months and years, but you can hardly tell a deep thing about them. But they can wake up any day any time and tell very personal and deep things about you. They know you so much, but you hardly know a thing about them. It's not about being a good person who is free.

This is a deficiency, and you must learn to see it as that. You have no quality true friends, your relationships don't last cause it's like everyone you open up to tend to start acting the opposite. Because over sharing strikes out excitement. You must learn to build healthy boundaries.

Everyone shouldn't know you so deeply so easily. Have something people would be excited to dig out about you by themselves. Talking too much isn't a good habit at all. Check it and build boundaries.

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