WHAT I WISH TO CHANGE ABOUT MYSELF

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"One Thing You Wish To Change About Yourself"

We all have that one or more things we wish to change about ourselves, it could be a mindset, it could be dress sense, it could be a character or anything.

Every week the Hive-Reachout community always engage us the newbies and i want to thank God for the administrators of the community for giving us opportunity daily to grow in the Hive community. I will be sharing my experience and i hope it blesses and encourage someone out there.

WHAT I WISH TO CHANGE ABOUT MYSELF.

As I look back on my life, I realize that there's one thing I wish to change about myself: my tendency to be overly self-critical.

Sometimes, I'm too hard on myself. I focus on my mistakes and weaknesses, and I forget to celebrate my strengths and accomplishments. This negative self-talk can be draining and hold me back from reaching my full potential.

I wish to change this because I believe that self-compassion is essential for happiness and growth. When I'm kind to myself, I'm more confident, resilient, and open to learning daily.

To make this change, I've started practicing self-care and positive affirmations. I remind myself that everyone makes mistakes and that it's okay not to be perfect.
I always remind myself that im fearfully and wonderful made by my creator and no one can be me.

I've also surrounded myself with supportive people who encourage me to be kind to myself. Their positive energy is contagious, and it's helping me to develop a more compassionate mindset towards growing and achieving my full potentials.

Finally, changing my tendency to be overly self-critical is a journey, but it's one that's worth taking. By practicing self-compassion and surrounding myself with positive influences, I'm becoming a happier, more confident person than i use to be daily.

This year 2025 I'm seriously working on this part if me to ensure i attend to all that i have to by believing on myself that it's okay to fail. When i fail is not a crime. I will keep trying anf i know i will succeed.

Thank you.
Liman Ayaka Agbu

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This is profound sir. Out of the goodness of trying to be the best possible of who we can be we tend to get carried away by the fact that we might fail at some point. And that shouldn't make us beat up ourselves but to try harder while we celebrate the ones we have achieved.

Thank you sir. I will always celebrate the achievement always.

Always believe in your self there's no limit to what you can achieve!
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Thank you sir.

There's always this nagging voice constantly reminding us that we are not where we are meant to be most times completely disregarding how far we have come
I hope we all find the courage to applaud our efforts no matter how little
Thanks for this

Amen and amen

Thank you sir for sharing this with us, you've reinform us about the need to always value ourselves and share in the joy of our achievements more than we focus on our failures..

Thank you boss for always giving us the opportunity Sir. Daily i will focus on achievements than failures.

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Sometimes I feel we are fake but we don't even know it. Take for instance, a person will hates himself but go out there and care for others with every thing he has. Isn't that hypocrisy?

I was discussing with a friend recently how that the Bible said,love your neighbor like you love yourself not more than you love yourself. The reason is because I doubt if there is anything we can love more than ourselves. Whatever a man does, good or bad, the aim is to earn something for himself,it can even be to gain God's trust or attention.

We have to learn how to treat ourselves right. Sometimes we beat ourselves too hard, issues that we should address and let go, we sometimes hold firm and allow them to keep eating us up.

Funny enough at times we feel we are disciplining ourselves by doing so, not knowing that it's even one of the things that is preventing us from growing.

Imagine how powerful love is, imagine what it will do in our lives if we allowed ourselves to be the first partaker of it.

It's fine that you are working on this sir, I know it's going to be difficult because we are humans, being hard on ourselves is something that will just happen but when it does happens, don't let it over stay it's welcome.

Self love isn't selfishness,though when it's entirely about you and you cease to see the need to chastise yourself when the need arises,then something is wrong.


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