I have a friend who one time was broken and discouraged about marriage, probably cause of what's going on in their house, some marital issues between her father and mother, and she told me, it's really disturbing her about marrying wrong and settling in with a wrong decision for ever.
The issue of marriage is something many persons don't actually take into consideration before opting in, just because these person is rich, tall, dark, chubby, beautiful , probably meets their specifications of who they envision they jump right in and sooner or later they realise they'd made a very deep mistakes and want out, here we now have divorce cases all over the world by same people who were madly in love with each other.
One very important point made mention by Bro Eli in his teachings to us is finding a prudent man or woman, prudence that is based in the knowledge of the word of God and not of this world, hve you ever ask yourself why there are lots of divorce cases filed almost everyday, why do people fall in love then fall out of it so soon, you see they soon realise that they have met the wrong person who put up some form of comliness just to get attracted and soon the real color surfaces.
Like my friend said, I have been disturbed too about marriage, because I'm sure 80% of men in the world today are not fulfilled or are paying dearly for their mistakes by getting involved with the wrong person, getting married to someone who isn't meant for them, so they face struggles and problems everyday.
On the other hand a man can become so much, to a very great an enviable height because of marrying the right woman, so goes to the woman, the point is marrying right is key to fulfilling destiny and purpose on earth, because your partner has a direct influence on you weather to good or bad.
Above all remember that for ever is too long a time to be foolish all the days of your life think twice before making that decision.
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