THOUGHTS WHILE IN LANAO DEL SUR

in #hive-1884092 years ago

I have lots of pending drafts and I’m slowly posting them, so this was one of them,

this was an event that happened last year, just a random thought on this day, nothing special but I just wanna share

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my family traveled to Lanao just to attend my cousins' wedding, honestly, I’m not so interested in going to weddings especially when it’s far away, but my mother insisted I should.

when we arrived everyone was so busy preparing for the wedding, I just sat down and admired the sunny and windy nature

I thought, a beach wedding is so nice and I’d choose this as a setting too if i marry

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anyways, my most important thought of this day was the location, my ex was located near this area, and if we were still together during this day, that person would have been with me…

when the break up was still fresh back then, my pain and bitterness includes not going to places where that person is, even hearing the areas of Misamis oriental was painful to read or hear and i thought I will never go to the area where that person was, like not breathing the same air.

I also thought I had the biggest progress of moving on because knowing myself I wouldn’t have come here because of my bitterness but here I am, having my peace of mind, realizing I’m all better and not bitter. I just smile and laugh my stupid shits while i was hurting…

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while I was lost in my thoughts and taking pictures, here’s a person getting emotional ahahaha, I just laughed because, same bruh! joke ahahaha

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the beach ain’t that good of a view compared to the ones I’ve been to, but the calming ambiance is relaxing it gives me peace of mind.

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guess who’s early ~ me ~

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but you know since the wedding was starting I left the place where I was seated and just observed the wedding in the second-floor cottage areas

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when the wedding ended I still stayed where I’m at, because I’m enjoying my isolation

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everyone did the after party for the wedding but during this time, I was more focused on my phone talking to hiveph members, like getting to know the new ones that slid to the servers

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anyways the next day we went home and my other cousins wanted to be on a beautiful beach so we stopped by to just dip in the water for an hour and went home afterward, it was a 4 hours travel going back to our hometown

Thanks for reading!

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!PIZZA

It's nice to know you're better now... but are you really? hahaha kidding!
Beach/Garden is really a nice venue for weddings ❤️

HAHAHAHAHA you make me doubt now 😆 FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT!
😂 charot hahaha..

Yan din ba dream wedding mo c? Ayieeeee

We only realize we were doing stupid things when we have moved on. 😆😆. Then cringe over the thought of that stupidity 😆😆😆

Omg! Yes! This is the exact words! 😆😂😆😂 HAHAAHAHA

A beach wedding is one of my choices if ever we decide to wed in the church.
Yet the husband wanted the ceremony at the church.

Cheers sa patuloy na pagmove on!

diba ang ganda din pag beach wedding ~ para new to the eye chariz

sige lang you guys can wed again ate lhes ayieee

I also have a lot of pending photos to post haha...
Ngayon ko lng napansin, d pa pla kta nafollow 🤣.

hahaha e post na natin lahat ate jane para ma free of memory na sa phone hahaha
nyahahah that’s okay ate.. i already followed you before na ~ 💞

Naalala ko ang bf ko noon pag pumunta kami sa isang lugar ay naaalala din niya ex gf niya. Hehe..
Mabuti ka pa nka move on na. Hehe

Awwwe. So proud of you for moving on and choosing yourself. I love to be isolated too and enjoy my own company.

Yessu ~ thanks clo ~ 😆 or more like i was avoiding family gatherings hahaha

The things we do to protect our mental health... Hahahaha

Congrats on moving on, Jude. One day you'll meet the person who is the right one for you. 😊 If I was on that place, I'll find myself isolated from the crowd and contemplating on what's happening to life, too. Crowd isn't just my thing.

Aw Luoy Jude.. okay lang yan! there is more to life than !LUV. may be not now but you will find that person that you will be with for life :) and im hopeful for that!

the last photo is soo surreaall!!! you can see the division of the heaven and the sea! nice capture!

kaon ta !PIZZA

kawawa last year but not kawawa this year 😏😏😏

Thanks bruh!!

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😆 this shit post ain't for pinmapple though hahaha