Hello and a very good day to everyone.
All my childhood I have heard several times that, light shows us the way and darkness makes us lost, but as I am growing I happen to feel that it depends on ourselves, alone. No one way is good for everyone and no one way is bad for everyone. We are humans and each of our mind sets in a different way. A prime example of that is our perspectives on life and our choices. Even if me and my friends are given the same opportunity, I am most likely to choose a different path than theirs and I still won't be calling my doom. While, if they choose my path, they can face doom.
just like that, loneliness is not a disease. For everyone, it is not lonely to be alone. For everyone, being in a crowdy place is not peace. To many, being alone is fun. Being alone energizes them, instantly. Being alone is more peaceful than being with others. From person to person it varies.
Lately, I am hearing more of Billie Eilish's songs and I suddenly realized that not everyone enjoys being in crowdy places and parties. I am and was always like the one who enjoys their own comfort, an introvert, but because of this nature of mine, I was many times left feeling lonely in crowdy places and it took to digest that it was a very normal thing. The people around me made me feel more insecure about my choices but now I know that I am just as normal as many others.
Being a 16-year-old and finally learning to be normal makes me feel more comfortable and made me realize that the misconceptions are yet to get cleared. There are many people who do not realize the fun of being alone and because they themselves don't feel it they put pressure on those who do, which ultimately makes the others feel insecure about themselves. That is not the right way of leading this.
Even now many people are not educated and get deviated too easily. I had to miss my classes due to some intentional human congestion on the road and if studied properly, the ones participating in it are not knowledgeable beings but rage-driven illiterates. Calling them illiterate might sound wrong but think about it, a literate person would not aimlessly start a fight, not even for their chair or people. A knowledgeable person will not ruin their own asset for some power. At least that is what my small mind tells me.
I am not into the chaos outside, because that is an endless battle of rage and violence. Educated people might misuse power and their knowledge but it is for us, educated people, to differentiate right from wrong.
Isn't it lonely all alone? No, it is not for me. If it is for you, it is okay. I like my own company and if you don't, it is absolutely fine. Not everybody enjoys the rain, summer, and winter, all together. Keep learning and educating your mind.
Thank you all. I wish you know that being different is not bad. Being bad is bad. Also, being an introvert or extrovert is your own choice. Your comfort zone is your happiness.
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