We love many things in our lives, be they individuals or objects. But think about it, which thing do you love the most? Maybe you will say, friends, parents, husband/wife, etc., etc. In answer to this question of mine, everyone will be able to explain the reason with different answers from their respective positions. But in terms of personal development, I would say - we love ourselves the most in the world. One sage said, "If we do not love ourselves, no one else will love us." But the reality is, we are not able to love ourselves for many reasons. As a result, despite many possibilities, we fail to improve our lives.
We often achieve success in different fields. It can be small or big. At this time we should congratulate and reward ourselves. And this award should be of high quality. Suppose you get a silver or a bronze medal for success. In this case, give yourself a gold medal without a bronze or silver medal. In this way, you take the highest honor from yourself in your success. There are people in the world who spend most of their time thinking about what they don't have or their weaknesses or what they can't do. As a result, you can't use what you have properly.
On the other hand, some people achieve success in life by using the means or qualities that they have. So you do not belong to the first group but the last group. In different areas of life, we face many problems including failure. In such a situation we should take more care of ourselves and love ourselves more and more.
Life depends on loving oneself. Nature has written its love in its DNA, made the body that way, and arranged the feelings accordingly. Now if someone claims that he does not love himself or loves others more than himself then it must be understood that maybe he is a liar or mentally ill. Even those who commit suicide do so out of love for themselves, considering the world unfit for themselves, and freeing themselves from this unfit world. Because parents love themselves, they want to survive through their children.
The benefactor can benefit others because he loves himself, if he did not live well he could not survive to be a benefactor, and if he did not survive he could not do anything for others.
Even if 800 billion people in the world hate you, you should love yourself. Remember, the more you love yourself, the happier and more successful you will become. In the same way, keep yourself in a beautiful state mentally and physically. Otherwise negative emotions like anger, rage, and anxiety will spread like wildfire and destroy your life in no time.
