HOMONYMS ~ All of me

in #hive-1902122 years ago

Greetings pupil.

All of me is a bit too much of a title ain't it? We have one life and one post every time when the mood and time sets in. So, I am thinking this title is worth the go. I was not prepared for writing on the gender swap topic but I have seen most of my community people writing about it and I felt a little left out not being able to connect with them, but I wanted to connect, so here I am. Thanks to bdshorts for creating a field for us all writers to connect.

This was a sudden plan, inspired by the post of @surrealfia sister. She is an amazing person, by heart and mind, both. Thanks for inspiring us all with your writing pieces. Now, not everyone has the power to do so, you do, thank you.

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KAROLINA GRABOWSKA from kaboompics

I always despised men from the very start of life, more like from the time I got my senses. Many of you might feel off when I admit this but this is true. We all have our life cycle going haywire and if you respect that you will understand that this is no personal attack. As a person, I respect all genders but the problem lay here where continuous disapproval has caused the hatred. Too much of pampering and spoiled events has made my feeling grow more strong.

However, life has grown much deep now and I have met many people, alhamdulillah. Life has taken a different toll, although my hatred didn't decrease but it is not growing either. But, the perspective of wanting to be a man never came to my head. I respect my gender and I want to make it grow. Yes, you all respect your own gender too but I have never felt any of the feelings that you did, so I am stating this, it is not to insult others with different feelings. I respect all your choices and I actually understand your views.

As a female I have emerged a lot and that would not have been possible if I were to be a man, this is a honest confession. I am happy to be born as a women, I have learnt a lot and I am still. Being a man, life would be just different, I never imagined myself being one so I do not know about that. My mind is totally at a blank state, so I am sorry I am unable to swap myself.

However, interestingly if I suddenly get my gender swapped by some loop hole in the universe, then I would still have my feelings and mindset like I have now, so now I can imagine myself as a man and share some tiny changes I would like to implement.

First, being the ideal character I wanted to meet, a responsible, eligible man. One who doesn't misjudge the power of a women nor snort at the actions of one. One who has a broadened mind and humor sense that does not coincide with gender discriminations or any other kind of discriminations. We all have the black spot in us, so maybe I will not be a temperament man but maybe one who is anxious all the time. I still do have that problem but that has nothing to do with not being responsible.

Little accountability and being responsible is one of the category that is being pushed to the male gender from their childhood, that is why they develop a negative perspective or burdensome perspective on it, and there are many more topics alike this, I know they are playing their own struggle game but being an ignorant ass cannot be forgiven. Anyways, the same applies to females who do the same. You are a female not a soft cotton candy, annoying thoughts will start to emerge and destroy this post. So, before that happens, we need to stop.

All of me loves who I am. I am a women, and I am strong just like all the other genders. I am no special person nor do I have a special kind of gender with special powers. I am just a normal me, oriented and identified by my gender. Gender plays a no big role in giving me privileges but it surely did shape my life in a very different way and thanks to our community for that, but anyways. We all are beautiful just the way we are, no matter our gender.

~The End~


This is my twenty-fourth post in HIVE. I hope to connect well with everyone. This is me here, Lemonade1, I am a bookworm, meaning I love reading books more than anything. It is my first priority and also my last. Besides everything else, I love traveling and I aim to create my travel diary here.



~~ Life is too short, so I like when we argue less and converse more. Be productive than being futile. Spread our wings and fly freely. I hope you are with me. ~~

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Assalamualaikum, may peace be upon you.

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Gender plays a no big role in giving me privileges but it surely did shape my life in a very different way and thanks to our community for that, but anyways. We all are beautiful just the way we are, no matter our gender.

Thank you for your lovely words sister... this particular portion has caught my attention. I agree with you, gender has definitely shaped our lives - but what we become is nothing to do with our gender but our hearts and minds and that's more important than whether I'm a man or a woman

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