I heard several people around me saying that they live life for someone else. It means that other people are more important in his life than even himself. On that priority list, there can be a single person whom you are very much fond of or a couple of people who make you feel weak. I feel having a good number of people in your preference list is not truly an awful thing at all but here I would like to ask you a question, what do you think loving others more than yourself is quite a normal thing? It's quite a deep answer as far as I feel.
Because most of the time I listen to some common phrases from them confessing like My life is empty without you, I can't imagine the world of mine without having the presence of yours, If you are not mine my life will be too chaotic and I don't even know what will happen with me because I want you more than myself.
Oh, well. I slightly move away from the answer. In simple words, the answer will be negative from my side. I don't feel there is any sense in loving others more than ourselves. Because I believe If you don't love yourself quite perfectly then how will you think that you will be able to love others and that love will be everlasting? There is no competitor with you while the term love comes. What does love honestly mean to you?
Being Caring, being respectful, feeling safe and comfy, right? If these things are missing in you and you just demand someone's love blindly, how will he or she come into your life? Loving yourself is so crucial, basically, it's a form fact of loving. I am not saying less the portion of love to your loved one, I am just telling while loving your loved one don't less the portion of the love that have in you and that's the main thing.
In my places I heed, humble boys hardly get their loved ones his life. A couple of days ago I heard the phrase while chatting with others. Even though It's not the first time I heard the phrase, I heard that kind of phrase several times. Let me tell you the story, the man is approximately four or five years older than me. Such a humble and gentle man he is. As a human, we don't even know when and how we get crash with love.
You don't even truly assume when you start liking a person. It quite occurs naturally and you don't even have the exact answer why do you love her? Yes, It defines that you are truly in love with someone. But what If you quit the game before making the same feeling to her.
Yes, It's a massive fault. From the first day of his college life, he liked her and sat in a corner seat to her see all the time. But she didn't know that a boy blindly love him. Oh, well I forgot to inform you the girl was one of his relatives. He started chatting with her but he didn't have a talk with her by standing in front of her. Because he has fear as much as love was in his heart for her. It was going on and everything was going well and quite normal. Approximately 6 months gone but they had no conversation standing face to face.
He felt something bad is going to happen because he was being gradually weak to her. He can never utter the word standing in front of her I like you or I love you whatever. One day he decided that he can escape the emotion for so long. Yes, he had revealed his love, he had expressed it but not standing in front of her. He took the medium of SMS to express the whole thing. Ultimately a positive response didn't come from her side. A couple of days later she got married and he had badly broken down.
Yes, In love you must be brave enough and you should love yourself first as well. I believe as much as you love others more than yourself you get hurt by them. If the number of your love is so long you will get hurt more which I realised.