It seems that there are two specific ways to lead one life. One is ignoring mentality, no matter what the situation is one enjoys his every bit of moment by ignoring every unusual thing so easily. Getting this kind of personality from people is so rare. Another one is living with toxicity. In our life, some incidents have a deep impact on our real life, on our emotions. Personally, I have seen these types of people in my life and these ways of life force me to think about my life for a bit.
As we all know that humans are made with a vast amount of emotions, so It's quite a very normal thing that whenever any bad time comes or we face an uncertain situation in our life, sometimes we find no way to come down. We deeply think about the situation to come out, sometimes because of the overthinking, we make the situation more messy and chaotic. There is hardly any person you find who can deal with every unbearable situation rightly. If you have the attribute, you are one of the special people on the planet I would utter.
Anyway, let me inform you that I know a guy very well, the guy is one of my so close friends. The guy is like a reckless rider, he looks at his life like a bike and his only work is to ride the bike of life just for enjoyment. To enjoy the life he can do anything, he can take any kind of step. Do you know how a rider becomes so reckless? A rider becomes reckless when he does not think about anything without his ride. While he rides his fundamental motive is to enjoy the ride and to enjoy the ride or to make the ride comfortable he can upgrade his speed or he can downgrade his speed based on the current situation.
One day, I asked him how do you deal with the worst situations of his life so easily? He replied he has only one concept in his life and the concept is very clear, the concept is no matter what the situation is he has to lead all of his life happily. This simple concept of life pushed him to deal with all of his uncertain situations. Personally I was shocked after learning the simple concept.
Most of the time I can not capable to forget my toxic memories although I know very well that It's very harmful for the betterment of my future. Sometimes quitting out of the place at the right time which is not helpful for you is very crucial to be happy or to lead a happy life. I am trying to remove the toxic memories from my mind but there has happened some uncertain thing that I can't forget so easily although I'm trying so hard to forget it.
I believe sometimes living with some toxic memories are not that bad because at your bad times you will know the character inside the body perfectly and in the long run, it also will help you. At bad times you will have a very clear idea about your close relatives and your close friends. You can detect their toxic mind so easily and those behaviours, that toxic time will hurt you. But believe me, it will also help you to build up yourself strongly.