Hello friends, hope everyone is doing good. It's been a tighter and busier time for me lately but I'm giving my best to channel my time resourcefully. Nevertheless, I came across this love song by Bruno Mars which was released in 2010, titled: Just the way you are.
I have learnt that appreciation which does not necessarily mean over-hyping or excessively eulogizing someone is one of the pretty ways through which we exhibit how much we love people. However, as humans, it's easier to appreciate people of our class, families and closer friends than those we probably do not have closer ties with.
We are all born with our respective imperfections, deletions and frailties with everyone doing his best never to be noticed of his imperfect effigy although at some points, those traits show up in order to humble us, which leaves us with the impression we are human.
Factually, we mayn't exonerate this issue from our homes when a husband or the wife starts observing certain irregularities from their spouse or friends noticing abnormalities from their acquaintances. However, in those instances, we have to summon ourselves to the knowledge that we are all humans.
Bruno in his song insisted, just the way you are. There is quarrel, misunderstanding, and segregation in different homes and friendship in general because we have wanted everyone to be like us, we have envisioned people to act, talk or probably be in our level for a free flow of relationship and peace but here lies the problem that everyone cannot be like us. Humans are by default meant to act on grounds of their intrinsic ability and probably adjust based on compulsion and level of docility.
The underscore is that the earlier we understand and also familiarize ourselves with the mindset that people are by default meant to act and behave in different ways, the better we begin to appreciate and accommodate their differences.
We have seen battered relationships both in homes and outside of the homes which is just a product of misconception, lack of appreciation and non acceptability of our respective differences. However, this is why people die fighting for what could have been judiciously managed beforehand.
I once had a serious log ahead with my younger brother in 2022 which prolonged till this year 2024 but just recently, I had to call myself to order and settle with him after realizing I gain nothing keeping those nasties against anyone since we do offend others oftentimes.
The nitty-gritty of my underscore over this symphony is that we have to accept everyone just the way they are. Whether it's, our husbands, wives, colleagues, etc. We need to accept and appreciate them the way they are even if they aren't as perfect as we have expected them to have been.
Nevertheless, let's accept our friends the way they are. Let's keep our children the way they are. Let's accept our spouses the way they are, and when this is done, the world will be a better place for everyone.
It doesn't matter who's right, wrong, perfect or good, rather the knowledge that we are all created with our peculiar traits will propel us to see that perfect behavior and attitude in people even when they are wrong, which is exactly what Bruno Mars underpinned although using his girlfriend as a model. Thank you for going through, do have a great day.
