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Each time this pops into my mind like What excuse do people give for staying in a toxic relationship?
that's the question I ask myself each time my friend comes to me with reports on how she's being treated by boyfriend in her relationship every week comes with a different story and fresh bruises her whole body and mind is already looking like a thorn road map yet every time she still manage to fix those maps together and find her way back to the road she had promised herself not to go any longer and each time her map tears she staggers through her lost road back to my arms crying what can I do talking her out of the relationship is longer an option I have done that more than a million times yet will I say "Love" or puff will I say "self hatred" have blinded her eyes from seeing the reality of truth because how can a normal human being enjoy staying in hell just because of a word of lie in love
Oh yes I agree with you Love is a beautiful thing you gotta lose your mind to the whole love thing to work oh yeah definitely you have to do everything within your power for the beautiful bond you guys have created to continue forever but does that include a life of suffering just so you can proof how much you love your partner I get it Love is not 100 percent perfect but at least the 95% should be your sweetest experience ever
But funny enough some relationship weren't as toxic as the grew to become it use to be all sweet and fun then all of a sudden everything changed not like they don't love each other any longer but then there is always a force pushing them to lash at each other I believe that's the reason we stay trying to work things out to go back to the way it use to be but each promises we give to each other turns to be a lie we can't deal with it anymore we leave each other yet running back in each other's arms again we realised those were fake promises and it's beyond our power to keep them because the were built in lies but we just love them anyways...
But then why not tell me the bitter truth than giving me lost hopes in love faking actions just to make me happy am happy but the lies hurt more than the happiness
LOVE THE WAY YOU LIE BY EMINEM FT. RIHANNA got me thinking why people prefer to burn in lies than facing the reality of truth I guess lie is sweeter and easy to believe but why don't we think about its grievous consequences when the sun finally sets in to reveal the truth can we be able to handle them
Staying in a toxic relationship is never the best option I can't count how lifes that have been lost in the hands of toxic partner those souls kept believing that their partners were going to change for the better yet they grew from worst to worst "It's never gonna be like this the next time" they promise but what if there isn't a next time what if we lose yourself in this time what if we burn to death before the next time
Aside toxic relationship staying with toxic people can cause a very great damage to our mental health and even destroy our own inner self relationship and peace
Having the confidence to Say NO to toxic relationship can be one of the most courageous thing we can do and it's the best decision to make
Say No to toxic people and relationship don't allow yourself burn while they watch
Back to my friend, one early morning I received a call that she was rushed to the hospital because of the injury she sustained from her living hell relationship at the hospital she cried and told me how much she regrets not listening to my advice she said each time she wants to something kept pushing her back to the guy and then she made a shocking confession that kept me mute for more than a minute She said....
"My Guy Is A Psycho But I Still Love Him Because Each Time He Beats Me He Always Come Back Crying And Showers Me With Lots Of Gifts To Show How Sorry He Is With Promises Of Never Going Back To His Old Ways But Then The Later Always Becomes Worse Than The Former"
And then I asked her again but why were you keeping up with him all through this years she said "Because I Love Him And He Loves Me Too" shuuu
Well I doubt the later because If you love me you won't hurt me, if you love me you won't hit me, if you love me you won't want to see me cry, and if you truly love me you won't LIE TO ME cos I DON'T LOVE THE WAY YOU LIE
