Gone Swimming

in #hive-19484811 months ago

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We lost another gentle, good soul this week.

Well... two actually, but the one chose to step out of all of this willingly.

But nobody wants to ask why or talk about anything much, really.

Of course.

#systemicabuseexists #systemicracismexists #weareallresponsible #wearethesystem #capitalismcausescancer

#resistyourfear

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What (some) people think I'm doing when I disappear from the internet of amazing things for a while

 

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What I'm actually doing when I disappear from the internet of amazing things for a while

 

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https://soundcloud.com/mettam3/on-a-clear-day

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Entered for the #KISS theme this week on The Minimalist Community.

Dedicated with love to all the gentle souls who may be struggling with the world we humans today.

Please... hang in there!

It's not your fault and there's nothing "wrong" with you. 💜

I'll share it again (and again) because he said it best.
 

that's not where the problems come from. They come from the environment, the cities, the economy, the racism. They come from architecture, school systems, capitalism, exploitation. They come from many places that psychotherapy does not address. Psychotherapy theory turns it all on you: you are the one who is wrong. What I'm trying to say is that, if a kid is having trouble or is discouraged, the problem is not just inside the kid; it's also in the system, the society.
-James Hillman Original source

 

But...

#wearethesystem #knockknock #2024

Really.

We can do better.

#plur

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Anyhooo... that's a bit of what I do to protect my emotional well-being.

And I've talked with three good souls, who I trust, who are also working personal growth and are also not afraid to talk honestly, about the less shiny stuff, in the last two days. Invaluable for emotional well-being for humans!

Not everbody who says they're your friend is your friend! Not every family member, who tells you they love you, actually does have your best interests at heart! Not everybody, who says they'd like to help you, is doing this for your benefit!

There's this weird thing called "human nature", you know. Although I've begun to call it something else now. Not sharing, yet, as my intellectual property keeps being (mis)-appropriated. Flattering, but also dangerous for folks in recovery.

Human nature. The survival instinct. And not a one of us is immune to our unconscious fears and/or "shadow selves". Mmmmkay? As it is. As it is.

#itsnotpersonal but #harassmentispersonal

But still... It is what it is.

So please try to not take things personally when folks are acting out their own trauma and reactions; and look after yourself while they figure their shit out! :D

So, until we figure our shit out, just keep swimming! Dory - Finding Nemo

And don't let the f*ckers get ya down. 😘

#fuckthat #itsnotyou 💜

 

#goneswimmingforrealsiesnow #nowindinpringlebaytoday #whatarethechances #lifeisshort

#thisisperfect


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Eternal Seeker
Hardened Dreamer
Mother
Peaceful Warrior
Determined Dancer
and Stargazer

still...

Beyond fear is freedom

And there is nothing to be afraid of.

To Life, with Love... and always for Truth!
Nicky Dee

www.mettame.art

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I'm so sorry for your loss. I think you should do whatever to get yourself to tomorrow. Well, not whatever. but the good things like dancing and swimming. And the not so good things like raging and crying. Cause rage can be hella powerful. It's a too. When you want it to be. :)

So really sorry.

PS: I'm not the system, though, N. Neither are you. Which doesn't mean you or I don't have a voice to speak against abuse and atrocity. But that doesn't mean you're the atrocious, abusive system :) Just sayin'.

My darling. Thank you. We weren't that close but always stopped to catch up at events. And she was one of hte only humans who reached out to find out more when I was up shit creek. #authentichumanity

Ah... that is another conversation and pending #thisisperfect ;)

But yes. Most of our trouble is "systemic" and unconscious, these days. I hear you <3

Thank you for your support and you-ness

Sending a hug to you Nicky 🤗💗

Not everybody who says they're your friend is your friend! Not every family member, who tells you they love you, actually does have your best interests at heart! Not everybody, who says they'd like to help you, is doing this for your benefit!

💯

Keep being strong and being you:)))

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Well... I am these days :D Despite anything that happens around me #resist ;) #resistyourfear ❤️

This one was for the gentle souls who still may think it's actually them that are the problem or not good enough. #justsayin

Stay you and stay strong too

Only Love, M

Hey you...
Saw your post when preparing to post on the kiss theme this week to and made a mental note to come check it out.

A bit more scattered and random than usual but no complaints from me, I get the general gist.

First my condolences on your loss, whoever or it was, I'm sure he was good ✨
Secondly, I don't really think it's bad if you cry and rage when you're off the internet.

Better than crying and raging on it ...

Human nature is quickly becoming one of the scariest nature's ever, and it's even scarier that it's everywhere among us.

I watched a movie day before yesterday and made a review on it.
The main actor on one of his scenes made a line that really stuck with me when he was about to save his highly dangerous, extremely rare magical beasts.

"I have to go save them."
"They're loose in a strange environment with 8 million of the vilest, scariest and most dangerous animals on earth. Humans."

Really made me think.

When did we get more dangerous than the natural born predators?

So dangerous that we're not only a threat to them, but we're also a threat to ourselves🙂...

When did we get more dangerous than the natural born predators?

We always have been. Because we lie. And deny. Therein lies the danger.

If we didn't things would be clear and we'd be able to protect ourselves. And each other.

Anyhoo...

i can read that you're rushed and too busy!! As usual. I do hope you're taking care of yourself.

Go swimming. Or walking! - Pippin's orders!

And, most importantly. stay you ❤️🙂

And thank you for always staying connected ;)

Took me a while to learn not to take shit personally. It’s a learning curve, but I got it in the end 😉

!love the last picture 😍 Like a rainbow!

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but I got it in the end

You'd think this would be simpler to fully "get" than it is, huh?! :D

Ah... that water though. *sigh

#rainbownation

So please try to not take things personally when folks are acting out their own trauma and reactions; and look after yourself while they figure their shit out! :D

This needs to be tattooed!

What you do in your room is what I call using space well! Great. 🤗

Yeah! Tattoos everywhere! 😈

Hey... honestly... if I could... I'd get rid of all the furniture and just have a studio space with a couple of beanbags in my lounge area. The Dream... or part of it.

And a big kitchen because some of the best dancing happens in the kitchen, you know 😆

Nice moves, lady!

Sorry to hear about your loss.🖤

And Ganesh is, I dunno, like my spirit animal or whatever the kids say these days. Helps me move shit when I feel too paralyzed to move it myself. Nice to see him (if I dare actually presume such a pronoun) make an appearance in your post.

if I dare actually presume such a pronoun

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Oh. You can say anything around me, these days 😂😂😂 #honestly

I'm officially through the fire and out the other side 👍 #gotcancelled

#jung #shadowwork #projection #denial #thedream



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LOL will have to watch the rest of this later.

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Just do it ❤️

I did! It made me feel a little better about a group chat incident earlier today when I referenced Woody Allen only to get cancel-cultured because he married his step daughter and, unbeknownst to me, abuses women.

Don't talk about anything! use I language only and never try to be funny, Anna. (inside my head)

So please try to not take things personally when folks are acting out their own trauma and reactions; and look after yourself while they figure their shit out! :D

Instead of do not disturb sign!

:D

Yeah!

But do not disturb sign faster and simpler some days! <3