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Being around clutter gets me uncomfortable, and having to go through it can leave me very drained. It's why you could come into my space and find some pens and markers organised in a drawer. Being in order helps me find things quicker and also keeps my environment appealing—to me, at least.

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It may seem negligible to some, but the environment can affect one's state of mind. I didn't quite realise much until I read in James Clear's book, Atomic Habits, how environment matters and motivation is overrated. All I knew prior was that I can become more productive when I have the notion of being in a clean and organised environment.

Back in the university, I would have this weighted feeling at the back of my head, knowing that my room's in disarray while I tried to study. I usually wouldn't last long, so I either leave for the library or spend the next hour putting things together, then the next three taking a long nap. So to prepare to study usually includes organising my room earlier on.

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There's just this sense of fulfilment and peace when I look at something in order. It could be anything, really, but it's especially so in physical places. And that sometimes requires things to be minimal. So anything more than necessary—on my desk, on the floor, or in the wardrobe—I take out of sight. It's just easier to breathe that way.

If I could help, I would always be in large spaces. This claustrophia thing... And so when I am in small rooms or so, it just helps to keep everything minimal and reduce clutter.

"If you make something a habit, make it easy to access." I don't remember where the saying's from, but it helps with things like chores. For example, I like to put things in corners and on shelves. Having to move this and that every time will make me not even want to do any in the first place. Besides, it's much easier that way to walk around without bumping into things.

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This minimalist tendency of simplifying my possessions and keeping them in order sometimes makes me let go of things. And that vexes my mom. And she—oh, Lord—she's a hoarder! One time, I abandoned my mattress on the day of graduation from my boarding school. I knew I'd never use it at home, and I also didn't want to carry that much luggage home. She still talks about it to this day. In my defence, it was infested with bed bugs anyway, so I did what I thought I had to do.

Also, she brags about how the things she's been keeping for centuries come in handy today. I agree that it's good to keep things, but I don't think you should keep EVERYTHING. Where are you going to keep yourself and the air to breathe? I'd rather keep the things that I really need regularly and just rent or buy the things I need in the future when the future arrives.

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Anyway, decluttering and keeping my possessions minimal and organised somehow boost my mood and productivity. When my space is clear and in order, my mind feels clearer too. And it also looks nicer that way.


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Your type of person is rare to find especially among the male gender. The society has made it looks like the men should be disorganized. I enjoyed your write up.

Oh, yeah? I an imagine. I believe it's one of those false stereotypes.

"If you make something a habit, make it easy to access."

Organising is looks easy but if that is a habit, it's kinda hart to keep orginising everyday :D. Good for you if you do it properly..

Heh... I understand you, fren. Thank you.

It also feels same here when I am entangled in an unkept room. You lose your vibes, can't think stress, don't get a comfortable air. Little things like this affects our overall productivity, I can attest to that. Thanks for sharing

It's an unwritten law of the universe that the day you need a thing is the day after you threw it out xD I think there's a balance. Yes, as your Mom said, some things do come in handy after months or even years of keeping them in a drawer somewhere, but many don't. It's tricky knowing which you will need in 3 years and which will remain as useless as now.

It seems to me you have found a good balance. I wouldn't have kept the mattress either! :)

I wouldn't have kept the mattress either!

Phew!

Beats me everytime I somehow find the need for the thing I thought to let go yesterday. It's crazy. Lol. At the same time, bothers me to see something lay idle for years and eating up space.

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If you make something a habit, make it easy to access.

James Clear talked about this in his book: that habits can easily be formed when you make them accessible.

And so when I am in small rooms or so, it just helps to keep everything minimal and reduce clutter.

This is exactly my point and reason why I find it difficult to leave my place and stay at my parent's place. The small space does not put me in the right state of mind.

This minimalist tendency of simplifying my possessions and keeping them in order sometimes makes me let go of things.

I think we are a lot alike in this aspect and definitely many others. My mum always talk about how I gave out most of my possessions after I finished my ND. I just felt that it was not needed, though might be useful in future, It is best to give it to those who need it now and when the time comes that I need it, I will buy it.

It is better than taking the stress to carry it home, not having enough space to keep it and ending up leaving it laying around.

This is exactly my point and reason why I find it difficult to leave my place and stay at my parent's place. The small space does not put me in the right state of mind.

I totally feel you, brother. I hope you quickly find another place soon enough when you leave where you currently reside, so you can enjoy your privacy and productivity again.

It is better than taking the stress to carry it home, not having enough space to keep it and ending up leaving it laying around.

And it may even cost more to move them sometimes. I relearned to let go of things when I was to return from Rivers State. I just couldn't bring everything back home.

Nice post. I am also very much the same like you.