Ah we are alike in that one.
I am definitely not shy, I just apply my social powers selectively based upon the situation ;). I also do not like my photo taken but don’t panic like some people when you raise a phone up. Definitely don’t like that reaction and can understand.
I also loath the posing so many people do because they are vain, insecure, wannabe instagram model, or most likely are all 3. i prefer candid shots for real life representation of the instant.
Some people flourish when they think they are in a picture and often simply flip through pictures to see people. So, i take those sometimes too.