Ladies, which do you prefer?

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I saw you over there and couldn’t help myself but keep staring at you, I was afraid of talking to you because I felt all my words would fall for you and not reach you, you’d think I’m deaf or something.

Ladies do you prefer I tell you this the first time we meet? 👆


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It’s not like I’m blind or becoming blind but I believe seeing you is all I’d wish for in my life, the highlight of my day, for some reason my eyes always spot you no matter the crowd.

What about this? 👆

Or you prefer I’d just say hello, I saw you over there and thought I should come to say Hi.


Men are always good with words but which type of lady are you? The sweat words lover or the straightforward type?

I’ve been thinking about it for a while though. How do you feel when a guy says sweaty things to you? Does it make you happy or your mind tells you he’s just lying or do you just want to be lied to even though you know it’s a lie?


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It’s messed up, isn’t it? Well, I’m a guy too and the first thing that comes into mind when I see a lady is to find something to say that would make her smile, you know that stuff about first impressions and all that?

So how do you guys look at a guy when he approaches you and starts talking? I honestly want to know, or rather we honestly want to know what you guys are thinking when we approach you for the first time.

If there was a skill a man could use to read a lady's mind, men would pay whatever price for it, even I would.

So, the title of this is “Ladies, which do you prefer?” I’m writing to try to know what you guys prefer in conversations with guys.



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Would you prefer a guy calls and wakes you up to tell you “I almost fell asleep but I’m having heartburn and you’re the only one that came to mind, I don’t know what you’re doing right now but my heart yearns to be left so it can be at peace, I’m just wondering if my heart resonates with yours?“

He pauses for a While and continues

“What did my heart do to be faced with this? Sigh… I guess issues of the heart can only be solved by the heart, would you mind telling me what your heart says? Because I’m sure if we trade hearts I’d be finer?”

What would you say after hearing this? 👆

I’m pretty sure if you were into the guy you’d reply positively right, or you’d just say sorry?

Funny right?



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What if a guy took your contact from a friend and texted you:

“Umm… It’s Gunu from the party yesterday, I took your contact from @depressedfuckup
I saw you standing and looked like you weren’t having the best of times there.

My friends had held me captive there so I couldn’t speak to you, I hope everything is well

I’ve always found your smile to be my favorite every time I chance upon you.”

Would you probably reply with “oh, everything was fine I just wasn’t feeling it there” or “I don’t even realize I wasn’t looking all that fine at the party”?

I know, I know, it seems like I’ll be a playboy or something but trust me I’m just curious as to what you guys think.


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The world is a big place, we all know that, but your smile seems to outshine that of the sun huh? I guess there’s no outshine your presence I suppose. Keep smiling, you don’t know how much eyes are hiding and stealing glances at you.

The Olympics is a huge event that happens at 4 years intervals it’s a sight to behold no matter how you look at it, but I believe meeting you would be far more better because meeting you can only happen once a lifetime.

A lot happens during a persons lifetime right, I’m sure you’ve blessed a person at least once with your lifestyle and demeanor.

So…

Ladies, which do you prefer?
The sweat talker or the straight forward guy?

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It’s difficult to say because everyone is different as you’ve noted. Sometimes it’s just the hello, how are you? Type thing that works and it flows from there. Other times you have to do something funny or sweet. It’s all very complicated hahaha and then you hear women say they want guys to relax because it’s easy to talk to them. Such a difficult scenario!

I was never really good at it myself but got lucky a few times, the last time I got lucky I married her :D

I was never really good at it myself but got lucky a few times, the last time I got lucky I married her :D

😂😂

It just baffles me, more like trying to understand what can’t be understood.

I believe men should have been given an encyclopedia of women once we were born 😏

Trust me, sometimes it beats me trying to keep a conversation going when she isn’t saying anything to make it flow. It probably doesn't happen on your side of the world, but it’s a thing here

Miscommunication everywhere

Hahah it’s universal man! The women here aren’t always helpful to keep things going let me tell you! It could sometimes be they are shy but others they aren’t interested and won’t say it in a literal sense so they just don’t participate.

Keep at it man! You’ll eventually get a winner!

Thanks 😊

I’ll keep my head in the game 😂😂

So you just decided to drop some bars while you’re at it? And you say “I’m not a playboy or anything”? Yeah good luck getting them to believe that now.

I’m afraid I can’t respond to the preamble though so I’ll be lurking here too in case anyone decides to give us a peek into their head:)

You bet 😂😂

But I’m not a playboy or anything

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Thank you 😊

All of this is a no for me😂😂😂.

The moment you start dropping bars, I feel like it’s a joke and you are being fake.
I would much rather prefer “Hi, how are you doing?” And get started on a real conversation

Cause you can’t tell me you are seeing me for the first time and start experiencing all these emotions. That love at first time thing doesn’t make any sense to me.

You were living your life just fine and now that you’ve seen me, I’m the air that you breathe? Oh please!

All of this is a no for me😂😂😂.

I wasn’t expecting this

The moment you start dropping bars, I feel like it’s a joke and you are being fake.
I would much rather prefer “Hi, how are you doing?” And get started on a real conversation

Okay, makes sense, but sometimes guys feel like they should say something that will make you at least think of your meeting after you leave

Cause you can’t tell me you are seeing me for the first time and start experiencing all these emotions. That love at first time thing doesn’t make any sense to me.

Okay, but sometimes you just can’t say anything apart from admiring a lady, the emotions part might just be for flattering.

You were living your life just fine and now that you’ve seen me, I’m the air that you breathe? Oh please!

This part is funny 😂😂

Someone said Oxygen will just be at the corner while people disgrace it 😂😂