In life we will come across many such situations where our integrity will be questioned. We will come across people who will put across their wrongness so confidently that it will become embarrassing for us to put our righteousness across. 2 years back me and my family faced such a situation. One of our old uncle had passed away, he was my hubby mother's brother. We had a very close bonding with him. During the last 2 years of his life one of our known person who was his neighbor started taking care of him. When our uncle passed away he got claim on all his property, he was already taking some action while our uncle was alive which we were not aware of. Our Uncle was very old and in a fragile state so the man took advantage of the whole situation, it was all happening during the Covid times when we did not have much of mobility. Also our uncle lived alone in another city so it was not very easy for us to keep visiting and the man took advantage of the whole situation.
The story did not end there, after our uncle passed away, the man started putting some content on social media where he kept pointing out to my hubby that we were the ones who wrongly entered our uncle's life and he was the genuine caretaker. It was all a big mess, initially we thought of doing a court case and we also started with the process but it was a draining process and day and night we were entangled in it, we were losing our sleep. That man was a real crook and he knew how to manipulate the system. He had got our uncle's will also in his favor, which was an unbelievable thing and we know that it was all done wrongfully. But then we just thought of quitting the whole thing and ignore him completely.
For many months he kept doing something or the other to instigate us and also threaten us in many ways, but we just ignored him, like as if he did not exist for us in this world. Initially it was tough, but then we were feeling that fighting with him was like losing our own peace of mind and our sanctity. We did not want to stay in that chaos, even if it meant losing out a fortune. Neither did we try to prove ourself to anyone, we knew our truth and we trusted ourselves and the Universe that being on the side of truth he would never be able to bring any harm to us.
Now when I am looking back at that incident, I feel so happy and also relaxed that we made the right decision. By cutting him out completely from our space and lives by not responding and reacting to him, all his wrongness and the way he fooled and backstabbed our family, we only found ourself inviting tonnes of positive energy into our life. Sometimes I also think that this whole situation was like a test for us in life, but I still do not understand was this test to fight it out or was it to Let Go. Anyways we Let Go and we found peace in it.
Though many people do not agree with me, but I always believe in one philosophy that for every wrong done to me by any one, I do not always have to get back to them, there is Universe who is recording it all, our actions and even what is in our mind and the Universe will pay us back accordingly, that's what we call Karma. I fight till it's in my capacity, but I do not wish to fight where I find my energy and consciousness altering to negative states, when such is the case I would prefer to take a step back, which we did in this case.
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