As someone on the autism spectrum, I really struggle with emotions. Not only do I find it hard to detect the emotional state of others, but I also don't recognise my own emotional state most of the time. In my own blog post series here on HIVE, I am forcing myself to reflect on my own emotions / mood, and I get my wife to help me to recognise my emotions. It is not easy when you are autistic.
Your post here is really interesting, @squids, and it gave me some insight into your personality. You have a very positive attitude, despite all that you have been through, and that is commendable. Keep seeing the glass as being half full!