Last night I was at a pub with a couple friends of mine. We were 3 of us, hubby is not in town so I was alone with them. We were having our good time with food, drinks and music. The place was quite empty, there were barely some 4 tables occupied, so we could see others in the place clearly. We were dancing and suddenly one man reached out to us asking if he could buy us drinks. They were 3 of them, all boys. We were watching, they were also having a good time dancing on the music. Politely we refused them.
After some time he again came up and asked us that he would want to buy us drinks, we again politely told him no, and then he insisted that he would like to buy. In this moment my friend sternly told him, we do not need. I was also not comfortable with this behavior. I asked him what was his intention and why would he force himself on us, and what made him think that we cannot get our own drinks and we would want someone to buy us a drink. Finally he returned to his table and settled down with his friends.
I find it scary when people do such things and try to push themselves on others. As it is there are many rough cases heard for such behaviors in pubs and clubs and it's best not to get much in conversation with these kind of people, because you never know their background and what they are capable of doing. And this guy reaching out to us 3 times felt very weird to me, it just proved that he had some intention and hence he was after us. These days even there are cases of getting toxic substances mixed up in drinks and then they can do anything with you. One has to be very careful and not get indulged with such people and accept their offers.
Youngsters get lured with these kind of offers and fall prey to such people, especially in the clubs. If he would have asked once and when we refused and he would have backed off in that case, I would have not doubted him,. But then he coming 3 times surely gave me a lot of suspicion.
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