Anarchy means no rulers, NOT no rules. There are three Laws - Natural Law expressed as the three things not to do - that apply to All, and All are responsible for arresting (or calling for help onm arrenting) Any who break them.
The #1 motivator for breaking these Laws is money/power. If, like the rare societies that emerged in abundance (like We have today but We emerged from scarcity), We had no need for money, the point to breaking these Laws is nigh nonexistent. And of course the tech that would make Our use of money pointless is avidly hidden and suppressed by the Ones with the money/power.
Anarchy is NOT pandemonium. That is a lie that the psychopaths push to create an indoctrinated aversion to the idea.
The Third Option: Anarcho-Abundancism (article): https://peakd.com/informationwar/@amaterasusolar/the-third-option-anarcho-abundancism