My ugly experiences during my mother's death.

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What experiences have you had with the death of someone close to you or a pet - How did it effect you in the moment and moving forward? Use your own photos.

Loosing a love one im death is comes with an ugly experiences. Because it's a painful situation. I had such bad experiences when my mother died. Though i haven't been told about her death due to the fact that am eight months pregnant when she died buti started seeing her often in my dreams sleeping in an uncomplicated building's. Even when i tried to force her in, she refused. After having such dreams for a while, i started calling her number. But i couldn't reach her. I now called my eldest sister whom she was is leaving with to confirm if our mom is good. To my greatest surprise, i was told that she is in the mortuary. The news of her death came as a shock to me and it made me speechless. I already had in mind to have my mom besides me once i give birth to my child, i didn't hear she's sick rather death.

While she was in mortuary, i had other experiences concerning her death. She didn't stop appearing to me in dreams. When i finally give birth to my child, we where facing financial crisis. One faithful night, she came and took me to the market. There, she asked me to select two big tuber's of the yams. I couldn't select the best because it was many. Guesswhat? She on her own selected the two best and biggest yams there and hand them over to me. It happened twice and finally, my hobby got a brand new tricycle. With that, i was easy for us to went for her burial which took place just two days after the tricycle was given to him.

Her death made me to suffer all alone caring for my new born baby. I cried almost everyday till two months before i was able to let go of her death.

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Sorry for the lost of your mother

Thanks so much

There is no greater pain than losing a mother, than losing a child, it is a pain that can never be overcome, just remembering it makes you cry. The hardest thing is to spend holidays and birthdays without them.

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My condolences for the loss of your mother @chichieze. It is not easy losing my mother either, but I was fortunate to be able to make more time over the last year to visit her more often and put aside any differences we had before she passed away last month. ❤️

That's very good. Am glad to hear you settled the differences you had with her. Thanks for your reply