Think of a scenario where your friends called you and asked you to go for a movie. And you get ready and go to the location where they asked you to come. And then next is that they ghost you instead of movie they go out elsewhere. And you keep on waiting and it's getting late. So you back home.
It's called ghosting to torture. It happened with me.
Then comes another scenario where your siblings tell you if you do X and Y and z then we would help you with this and this financially and who know we can help you get married. And then they ghost you again.
Once is a okay, two times mistakes, if this type of stuff happens to you over and over again then you have a problem with people. You trust too much and you get the taste of betrayal and uncertainty.
Understand the Scenario
Whenever people betray you, ghost you, put you into uncertainty then you can see that is because you trust them too much. You give them too much data. And also you tend to give them uncertain side of your life. So the first thing is giving lesser data and also understand from the body language how much someone is trying to manipulate you.
Learn to be Assertive
Most of the life problems happen because we are not assertive and we tend to cause more drama around our own self. And that lack of being assertive causes more life issues. Some of those assertive life tend to make things easier and people would learn the distance won't hurt you much. Being assertive makes life so much better in the long run.
Less Trust, managed Trust
Like you trust people based on what you believe and understand. However people around you tend to manipulate based on what you intend to trust. Some of the time trusting the wrong people can make your trust issues increase. So make sure to manage your trust and life would get easier and better with people and social side of the communication.
Set Boundaries
Most likely the people are going to be doing bad things to you. And that happens when you don't set a boundary. And that means the biggest blocker here is the boundaries. If you can set it up then you make life easier for yourself and the boundaries tend to make your life easier. People would learn what not to cross.
Betrayal and uncertainty is a part of life. I have seen a lot of that and also learned how to move ahead in life. But it does not happen overnight. I hope tips here helps you how to move and navigate out of such situation.
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