No discoveries can change the love of a doting child

in #hive-110602 months ago

Family is the strongest of all bonds; they know your vulnerability and weaknesses but will never do anything to hurt you and you also trust them to the extent that they will never do anything that will hurt you.


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When we are in trouble, the first set of people we remember is our family, we just know if the whole world turns against us, our family will always turn up for us no matter how bad we treat them, this is why I always emphasize on this quote enjoy your riches with those who were there for you when you were nothing and also ponder on this will those people you are spending on right now be there for you if you become nothing... This will guide you.

Unfortunately some people forget the sacrifices of their parents when they grow up, they forget those who they suffered together in the past and choose to let lust and other desires make them cherish the wrong ones, it is true that at some point in life, a man will leave his family to create his own family whereas a lady will also leave her family to create a new family but this does not mean all bonds and act of help should be cut from the old family for without them, we won't have the chance to think of the new family we are about to create.


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If I wake up one day to discover that my parents are not my biological parents, it changes nothing! not the love I have for them or the bond we shared because we have gone too far beyond flesh and blood...

Why would such a thing even surface after many years, I grew from being an infant to an adult and watched the ones I called parents grow from their youthful age to Old age, we shared many memories, their dedication towards making me a better man in life and all their life lessons...

So any discovery about them now is useless because my love for them is more than blood, it is now about who was there for me throughout the days I was vulnerable as a kid and protected me against the world's evil. I won't even be curious to find out about the biological parents unless I am giving a good reason why they neglected me or why I was adopted, and no reason can change the affection and love I have for those I know as parents.

Children take care of your parents, it is during their old age they need you more, even if you live far away from them, find time to always visit cos it is not just about sending money home, they also want to feel the presence of their little ones around...

Respect to all good parents!

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That is apt! It shouldn't change anything especially if those people gave you everything and more.

They also deserve to be loved and cared for even tho they wont obligate us to do it

It’s just so crazy how some people forget the sacrifices of their parents
It’s awkward and very weird
I pray such never happens to me

amen!

It is a fact that family is the only thing left in this world which is trusted and even though we know that everything belongs to each other, we support each other in bad times. Gives what is remembered for the whole life.

yea, nothing beats the love and trust of a family

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Well said, sir. Family is the strongest bond. You know, people nowadays love spending on people who will disappear when they go broke. Your family will be by your side through thin and thick.

so sad that it is the common trend nowadays especially with the youth, they make small money and start partying with friends and forget the sacrifice of their family

Very intuitive, Sir. I owe the new family no explanation. My family and home are already and always been with me.🌺

at all, no explanation, and not obligated to love them either, The old family gets it all

Burl, this is beautifully written! Your words resonated deeply, reminding me of the unconditional love and support family provides. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and emphasizing the importance of cherishing our roots.

Family is the first place of refuge we think of when we have no one else to run to. Even if we know they can't totally help us, we still go to them.

Family are the best set of people because you know them and they know you. As expected we would grow and many have other non blood related family and friends out there. But, I beleive our blood should enjoy the best of us, not others.

If I ever find out that my parents aren't my biological parent, I really will have no problem with that talkless of thinking if rejecting them. They took care of me from day one till the moment I got to know they aren't my real parents... the least is to pay them in kindness what they did to me, care for them like they did to me till they leave this world (even if I finally get to know and meet my biological parents)

Rejection is not even an option

Blood matters less in this kind of situation, there is a saying about being there for those who were there for us in our vulnerable days

Hmmmm. That is true though, those who were there in vulnerable days are more important.