Family is the strongest of all bonds; they know your vulnerability and weaknesses but will never do anything to hurt you and you also trust them to the extent that they will never do anything that will hurt you.
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When we are in trouble, the first set of people we remember is our family, we just know if the whole world turns against us, our family will always turn up for us no matter how bad we treat them, this is why I always emphasize on this quote enjoy your riches with those who were there for you when you were nothing
and also ponder on this will those people you are spending on right now be there for you if you become nothing
... This will guide you.
Unfortunately some people forget the sacrifices of their parents when they grow up, they forget those who they suffered together in the past and choose to let lust and other desires make them cherish the wrong ones, it is true that at some point in life, a man will leave his family to create his own family whereas a lady will also leave her family to create a new family but this does not mean all bonds and act of help should be cut from the old family for without them, we won't have the chance to think of the new family we are about to create.
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If I wake up one day to discover that my parents are not my biological parents, it changes nothing! not the love I have for them or the bond we shared because we have gone too far beyond flesh and blood...
Why would such a thing even surface after many years, I grew from being an infant to an adult and watched the ones I called parents grow from their youthful age to Old age, we shared many memories, their dedication towards making me a better man in life and all their life lessons...
So any discovery about them now is useless because my love for them is more than blood, it is now about who was there for me throughout the days I was vulnerable as a kid and protected me against the world's evil. I won't even be curious to find out about the biological parents unless I am giving a good reason why they neglected me or why I was adopted, and no reason can change the affection and love I have for those I know as parents.
Children take care of your parents, it is during their old age they need you more, even if you live far away from them, find time to always visit cos it is not just about sending money home, they also want to feel the presence of their little ones around...
Respect to all good parents!
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