This post is one week overdue, but here we go. I almost didn't share this because my husband, @rencalson, advised against making a big deal out of it. He recently turned 48 (on April 24) and requested that I refrain from posting anything about it anywhere because he's overwhelmed by too many birthday notifications. So, I respected his wish and kept things low-key, simply having a quiet birthday lunch over the weekend.
However, I feel the need to share this post because our local entertainment news has been buzzing about a local celebrity's numerous extramarital affairs. Of course, that gossip has nothing to do with my husband, and I won't be discussing it in this post either. However, I can't help but reflect whenever I come across such news.
There are many reasons why people cheat in marriages, and I'm not here to pass judgment on them. Everyone has their own reasons and circumstances, right? However, I want to make it clear that I don't support cheating at all because it hurts not only the couple involved but also those close to them.
😘 The Sexiest Men Are Those Who Are Faithful To Their Partners 😘
Now, relating that gossip to what I want to share here might be a bit of a stretch, but here it is: I believe the sexiest men are those who have a deep respect for their faith (fear God) and remain loyal to their partners through all the challenges and joys of marriage.
When a man is married and stays faithful to his wife, it makes him really attractive for a few reasons.
Firstly, when a man sticks to his wife and doesn't cheat, it shows he's reliable and trustworthy. That's because he's committed to his marriage and respects his wife, which are important qualities in any relationship.
Also, being faithful means more than just not cheating physically. It's about being emotionally loyal too. So, when a man focuses on his relationship with his wife and makes her feel loved and important, it shows he's mature and caring.
Plus, staying faithful often comes from having strong beliefs and values. When a man's actions match his beliefs, it shows he's sincere and genuine, which can be attractive.
It also takes a lot of self-control to stay faithful, especially when there are temptations around. So, a man who chooses to stay loyal to his wife shows that he's disciplined and cares about their relationship more than short-term pleasure.
And finally, a man who fears God usually has other good qualities too, like being kind, understanding, and humble. He puts his wife's happiness before his own and is willing to make sacrifices for their relationship, which is sexy.
So, when you add all these things together, it's easy to see why married men who stay faithful to their wives are considered so sexy. They show love, loyalty, and respect, which are all important in a strong and lasting relationship.
😘 Does @rencalson Fit These Criteria? 😘
Now, does my husband fit all these criteria? Well, certainly! I wouldn't write this post if he doesn't 🤣
This post might come across as cheesy, and it might even make him cringe a little, but I can't help but feel grateful for the man I've known for a quarter of a century and been married to for 18 years. After knowing each other for so long, it's easy to take each other for granted, but reading that juicy celebrity gossip, makes me reflect on my marriage and feel grateful.
We might not be famous or wealthy in terms of money or possessions, but I believe that God has blessed us differently - by giving us a strong and loving marriage - and I would not trade that with anything.
An old photo of us enhanced with AI 😍
@rendcalson is a loving dad to our kids.
And a blessed belated birthday to one of the sexiest men around 😆😍
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