Books and Life competition.Win 100 HBD and a secret surprise

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First edition of my yearly Books and Life contest. 2023 edition

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The idea of starting this post first appeared in my head when I was thinking to donate some HBD to a charity of my choice , to @papilloncharity, as a way of finally giving back to the Hive community. I have a 600 HBD budget from which 100 HBD will go to charity and 500 HBD will be given to the competitors.

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I felt that I wanted to create a contest about the things I loved the most: books and real life stories. I love it when a person shares with me parts of their soul, their struggles. I admire and value authenticity and real vulnerability coming from a place of maturity, not victimhood or attention seeking.

The requirements for this contest:

  1. Write in the comment section below the title and the author of a book that changed your perspective on life in a specific situation. Explain why and give me context of your life in that moment. Tell me where you are now because of reading that book. Write 1 short quote at the end of the written comment from this book that you love.

  2. Limit yourself to maximum 800 words.

This contest has a second twist: you have the choice to create a separate post on your profile where you can write a longer story about this. Mention me and I will read it. Please only mention me if you write a long post.

The second twist is optional but I will handpick the best long post as well and I will have a surprise for that person! I know that somewhere, out there, someone with great talent is waiting to be discovered. Just like I was years ago when I started blogging on Hive and there were a couple of valuable members who contributed to my visibility: @vincentnijman ( amongst my very first followers! I remember he gave me some hive to help me out!) , @meesterboom, @galenkp, @abh12345, @tarazkp. They all deserve my big hug! I was also supported by big communities like @ocd, @gems, @proofofbrain, @hivebookclub, @alienarthive, @thoughtfulpostoftheday, @onchainart, @photographylovers and so many more. Big hugs to them too!

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Contest starts today and it will end in 7 days. Results will be announced 7 days after the ending of the contest.

Prizes:

The best stories will receive 100 HBD each. I will select the 5 best stories from the comments.

The surprise for the best long post...I will keep it undisclosed, that's the point of a surprise😅

Now I will share my choice of the book. It is Alfred Lansing - Endurance, Shackleton's Incredible Voyage. It is the first 3 hour long book review I have made on my Youtube channel and I was just starting my book review journey.

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I was living in a place without internet so I had to stream from my phone and use my mobile data. It was a difficult start as I was in a sad situation in my personal life caught in an unhealthy relationship and a difficult place to stay mentally. I had mornings when I really had to motivate myself to get out of bed or even shower. Going in nature, painting, swimming and books literally maintained my sanity. The story of Shackleton inspired me to search in my depths and overcome my situation by discovering my inner strenght. It did not happen immediately, but even today when I think of this book I gain strenght. I am now living in a better place, where I am happy, safe and away from any drama. I know that no one will harm me in here, no one will put me down or bully me and that I can have peace.No one will kick me out of here. I am now happy and safe. And this book has a role in the grand scheme of things.

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My favourite quote:“No matter what the odds, a man does not pin his last hope for survival on something and then expect that it will fail.”

It is survive or die when life puts you down. Getting up is the only choice, even if some days it felt like there would be no end of it.

Looking forward to read great life stories and hear about inspiring books. I want my soul to be touched by your post! Just be sincere and be yourself.

❤I must add that I feel so happy to be finally able to give something back to Hive because this platform gives so much to me. ❤

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Glad to hear that you are in a safe place and gained so much from books. This is a lovely idea 😍

Thank you!🤗 Please share and reblog this post so that many people would hear about it and have a chance to participate🤗

Hello @creativemary, do we have to stop exactly at 800?
And Can I tag you instead in the comment section of my entry to this contest to mange my word count????

*pardon me, I always have this kind of hardship with word count lol

Hey! There are plenty of free word count apps on Google, you will find one😊

Please tag me only if you also write a longer post on your personal blog as well. Besides this it is enough to write in the comments as I required, I will read them! Looking forward for your entry, please share and reblog the post so more will be able to participate🤗

I am making a personal blog post, does the 800 word count also apply to the blog post ?

No, the longer post should exceed 800 words but not be so big that it is too much to read. Good luck!

Ahaha yeah, i just did 980 words I think 😀

I have read it, it is very good, thank you🤗

Thanks 😊

Am not a fan of very long pieces. Can I still tag you in a blog post if it doesn't meet the criteria? It won't be an entry though, but I think you've given me the opportunity to reflect

Sure! Looking forward to a long post!

What is your definition of longer post, I mean the word count for a longer post?, this is needed for me to know what to do ?? @creativemary

On your personal post which will be on your blog you can make it as long as you want. But please try to not write a novel😅

On the comment section the maximum is 800 words.

Good luck!

What a wonderful initiative! Your decision to give back to the Hive community through the Books and Life annual competition is truly heartwarming. The emphasis on sharing authentic, soul-stirring stories is a beautiful way to celebrate the transformative power of literature. Thank you for creating a space where genuine experiences and perspectives can shine.

I would love to check those your reviews on Youtube, and you look pretty too😀




Here is my story.

I still remember how lost I felt before I started my diploma program a while back. I was wandering through life without much sense of purpose or direction. Hard as I tried to chart my own course, I just felt confused and doubtful about which way to go.

Eventually I started talking to my therapist about this. She could see I needed something more to anchor me. One day she hands me this book - "Finding God's Purpose for Your Life" by Joyce Meyer. I'll admit I was skeptical at first when I started reading it. But Meyer's approach really clicked with me.

The idea that stuck out was that I didn't need to stress about finding my one "lightning bolt" purpose. Instead, it was about putting one foot in front of the other, trusting that God guides us to where we need to be if we walk hand-in-hand with Him. That lesson lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. It freed me up to take chances on new paths without worrying if each little choice was some ultimate destiny thing.

I can't say I have everything mapped out now. But leaning into that faith has this way of untangling all the uncertainty. Bit by bit, things feel more clear. More meaning seeps through. So I just keep on, opening myself to God lighting the way ahead. Because as Meyer put it, “If we are willing to do what God asks us to do, we will end up where He wants us to be.” And right now, that feels right where I should be.

Thank you for your entry, God always directs our path that is a certainty for me as well🤗

Trusting in God's guidance is indeed comforting. 🙏

God and love always win ❤️

Oh wow
This is something really interesting and cool.

I have a question here, I have a book which I can write about but that isn't in English, can I still write about it or is there any language barrier when it comes to telling about the book and the author

Regards

Hello! It is ok, as long as this is the book that you want to talk about, as long as you write about it in english it's okay. Good luck and please share and repost this contest so more people will have a chance to be discovered🤗

This is a wonderful initiative.

Thank you, share and reblog so more people would join and be discovered🤗

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Berserk by Kentaro Miura. Berserk is a story about a character who puts on a badass, cool and tough ,,mask'' on despite suffering insane trauma and having the worst possible life. He tries to avoid getting close to other people because in the past it ended REALLY badly and he is afraid that history will repeat itself. A story about friendship, love, betrayal and revenge. Despite living the worst life main character keeps on struggling with seemingly impossible challenges. Berserk thought me many lessons. To chase my dreams. To cherish what I have because I might lose it all. To believe in myself and my chosen path. To remember that no matter what your circumstance are someone else is in even worse situation. It gave me the courage to pursue my passions: My art, let's plays and blogging here on Hive. In real life my life was no where near as bad as that of main character of Berserk. With that being said like him I also have barely any friends. The only family member I still have is my mother. For me it is really hard to interact with people and I rarely let anyone close to myself. But at the same time at times I feel lonely. I chose to do what makes me happy in life. Being an artist or a blogger definitely is not the most common or most profitable paths of life. At times I have doubts of myself and my art because I have little luck selling it. I gifted way more art pieces than I sold and I still have a mountain of unsold pieces. But despite this I keep on struggling and hoping that future will be brighter.

He died doing what he wanted, no matter what Right? I bet he was Happy.

Great entry, thank you🤗

Is it similar to the movie "the fly" ?

Sorry but I don't think that I have seen that movie.

I meant ..The butterfly effect :)

I see. I don't think that it is very similar.

❤️ I will reply to this at greater length at a later time. This is super-generous from you, a life changing amount for some people out (t)here. Big hug 😘

Yes Vincent, I thought that I wanted for the prize to be consistent enough to actually allow people to "feel" they are getting something.
Hugs🤗😘

OMG I am so lucky to have found this and re-bloging right away so others can benefit as well. Thanks Alot @creativemary

My Storyline

Book tittle: The Ultimate Life
Author: Jim Stovall

This book is practically about a young man who inherited his billionaire's grandfather's wealth and got the another great Gift as a wedding tip passed on to him by his late grandfather. The journals and DVD videos where about his grandfather's life experience and struggles including some advices on how to as well succeed in his marriage being a good husband. It was emotional and a heart lifting experience for him and as well the chauffeur who got to share this story. The information changed his perspective towards life.

At the point of stumbling into this book was a very tragedic moment for me as I was struggling with life and all emotions tied up together. I had a 1-year program and I was promised to get help with a house that I needn't worry about a roof over my head but the day of my arrival I couldn't reach out to my friend and was stranded since the money I was left with could only go for two days paying for hotel. What will happen to me if I use my last money for hotel and she still doesn't get back to me in an unfamiliar state? Long ago my family helped her when she was having issues at home and got chased away from where she once called a home by her stepfather, so I really trusted her when she said she was really going to help me stay with her for the one year I needed.

This situation was very critical for me as I was meant to commence my internship in 2 weeks time and yet the person that led me to relocating refused to pick up my calls nor respond to my messages. I'd arrived in the late night hours on a Friday and was stranded that I had to Lodge for the night. On Saturday morning knowing my payment for the hotel was going to expired by 12:00 noon I decided to step out early in the morning trying to come up with a solution when I bumped into a young lady who was actually in a hurry going for hiking. Her greeting was friendly so i asked her if I could join her and she was okay with it. This led us to practically going together and joining others along the line. From there we started talking throughout our hiking hours and got to know each other within a short period of time. With everything being communicated, she offered to help me for at least some days while I try to get help/solution. (I dropped tears after hearing her say I could stay with her)

When I got to her house I sighted this book titled "The ultimate life" I asked her if she is through with it and she replied "No, not yet" I didn't want to think too much about my situationship so I decided to pick up the book to read keeping myself busy with some storyline for a distraction. How sad? I finished the book in less than a week. So quick right? Yeah I did finished it.

What got to me so much from this book was not the fact that the young man inherited such a wealth from his billionaire grandfather, but the fact that his billionaire grandfather had to pass through hell to get to the position he was known for. (After every struggle) It made me understood that the situation I was passing through at that moment which got me so scared crying throughout that Friday night with no hope of help was some sort of experience to make me stronger and wiser. (In terms of putting my trust in people 100%, and having to take off a journey without having enough funds with me) Never again.

Another thing that got to me so much is about the writer and how he narrated the story and became a successful man. Seeing how successful he later became as he was just a chauffeur as of then encouraged me. Who would have thought he will write a book that will forever be remembered? I understood right then that the stage of life I was in was just a phase I was going to get through. I understood no matter the situation be it a difficulty or rosy, I needn't worried because everything will fall into places. I learnt the knowledge of process (Not a day job)

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Problems can only be avoided by exercising good judgment. Good judgment can only be gained by experiencing life’s problems.

Beautiful entry and what a life saving encounter you had with that lady hiking, thank you for your entry🤗

Oh yeah, and I am really grateful for such an opportunity. She saved my life. Thanks Alot 😊🤍

This is a beautiful story and has so much to learn from, the situation you found yourself was heart breaking, did she finally connected back to you or you never heard from her again at all at, how could she have done such thing to you knowing you never knew any family or person in that city, she is something else 😯😲, thank God for a help from whom you never knew at all at all.

She got back to me after 2 months and by then I'd already gotten a place. She said her phone went bad but that was not the case. Another excuse was she didn't inform her mom. The thing is she didn't owe me anything and I didn't blame her anyways. let's say I got lucky :)

Thank God for providing a substitute for your safety at that critical time, good luck.

Thanks Alot ma'am 🤍

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I love this contest and I decided to create a long post on the topic, here is my entry @creativemary
https://ecency.com/hive-148441/@beauty197/this-book-saved-my-life

The Bible! That is a book which is indeed a source of wisdom. Thank you for your story and for your entry🤗

Yes is a great book of wisdom that can help anyone

You are actually making me fall in love with reading books. I’m so glad to know that you have gained so much from reading books
Nice one!

Thank you!

Dear Mary, congratulations of winning the contest & thank you for deciding to generously share 600 HBD. It is definitely not a small amount & surely will mean a lot to some of us here.
Anyway, I like the initiative & the instructions of the contest cause I have read some number of books that really made an impact on me & made my life change. It is even hard to choose the one that made such a significant impact that I remember cause it passed a lot of time & than other outer numerous stimulus kept on influencing me...
I would dare to mention the book Swami Vivekananda: Vedanta. Vedanta means "Truth". Swami never was writing. He was only talking wisdom. Channelizing. His disciples were writing down the lessons.
I remember how while I was reading this book, it was momentarily erasing all of mine mind constructions which made me behave in certain ways, it was erasing my firm beliefs of how the life in this world functions & I was feeling instantly lighter & enlightened. I remember I felt bliss & euphoria. I felt like this book is reprogramming my brain like it was really a computer & I'm installing a new system program on it. I also remember that some pages were so difficult to read & comprehend that I need to read them multiple times to really understand what I'm reading. But also, nevertheless, how difficult some pages were, as a whole the book was so light & came into me so easy. After that my view on this physical reality was never the same & I was interacting differently with everything.
At the moment I got that book in my hands, I was seeking for the Truth, like I always am. That is the reason why the book came into my hands. Cause I was yearning for it! If I remember correctly, I was kind of lost before I got the book. I was in the moment of change. Now, years after I read it, I believe I am on my spiritual path where I do not stick too hard to any object or desire. I try to observe myself in the interaction with the rest of the physical world around my body, seeing the true self captured in my body, being conscious of passing of time & all physical things. Being conscious of my everlasting & everchanging Soul which came into this dimension only as a temporarily user who will pass into other dimensions when the time comes.
A quote from the book:
Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves and every part of your body be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone.

Thank you for appreciating the opportunity and for your entry, very inspiring book!

May I also write & post to longer separated post about any other book or books or this comment is enough for the contest?

You can also do a separate post if you wish and leave me a link to it in the comments😊

OK, about the same book or I can choose some other?

It would be nice to choose another one 🙂

Even better! I have some great up my sleeve! 😀

Awesome!

There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.

Sometime back my uncle called me and asked me how my financial world was going and i mentioned bad, I explained how things were with me and he recommended this book titled Rich Dad Poor Dad to me.

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After going through the book I found out a lot of errors and one of them was proper planning and taking risk, during thay time i spent money on only food and nice places, I didn't think i was gonna go broken.

Though i was very young aside then so i wasn't really scared of anything since i have my parents to give me sometimes, but after reading the book i realized that all rich dad ever wanted was to make them business owners and not staffs why poor dad had same thought like my dad.

I also learnt that one of the reasons my family was giving me was because they wanted me to complete school and get a job that'll pay me, get married and have kids hense putting and keeping me in the rat race.

The rat race is a race where the poor gets to go to school, get a job and work for pay when they get fired they repeat the process, I didn't want that so i changed my way of thinking and started planning hard.

The world is a tough place and trust me only the wise and strong survives the weak get used, i became mentally strong after reading that book now i can proudly make financial decisions without being affected by any errors.

A great book! Thank you for your entry🤗

It's an honor to be part of such lovely contest.

This book has changed the life of many.
Education in 2023 comes from many sources and its beautiful.

There is always the one who shows and the one who sees

This particular book is a very powerful tool to fight the poverty mentality and needs to be marketed again to the common man.

I agree 10000%

The attitudes displayed at home truly influence us! I like your choice, thank you for your post🤗

Thank you, too ma

Very interesting topic, a book has a powerful way to make us realize the gift of health and awareness. AIDS is definetely a severe health issue. Thank you for your entry🤗

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Wow ..... this is big move to give so lot back , I hope soon we have here lot Book ideas up :)
I must go and read something fast :))

Hahaha yes read something extraordinary and then share!

I try :)) ... I must look what old books I have home :))

It must be a book that helped you in your life, to have that book in a special place in your soul.

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Thanks so much for this powerful contest. May God continue to reward you as have decided to give back to the community. Amen

Here is my entry link
https://peakd.com/hive-180164/@davidbright/the-book-that-changed-my-perspective-about-life

Hey! May God bless you too. I am glad that you stumbled upon this contest and decided to first share about it in your post.

Viktor Frankl and his book about finding the meaning of life in dire life circumstances is a powerful one. The quote basically describes the entire essence of the book, I know it can be a strong book in week moments. Thank you for your post!🤗

Does this mean you have read this book? This means you are indeed a book lover. This book brought me out of my depressed state and I am a better person today all thanks Viktor Frankl.

I appreciate you ma'am

Yes I have read it, it is a great book!

I am glad you can testify to the fact that the book is a great book. Thanks for this.

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That's a classic book for sure! A generous idea.. hope lots of people join in. I'll have a think myself.

Now you make me curious about the book you might choose for this...what could it be? I wonder😁

Great! Thank you🤗

This is very beautiful. I know of the people you've mentioned above. They are interesting individuals whose post always resonate with me. I'll publish a post on this. Thank you 😊.

Looking forward to your story!

Hehe, thank you 😊.

Wow this contest is calling because I actually have a special book that did a whole lot in my life, let me hit my keyboard and write

Bravo! I feel really happy after seeing your mention of Shackleton (guess i'll have to write about another book?) -- yes, it's among one of my favorites too! Have you read the Kon-Tiki Expedition? Another great "boating" book xD

I'll come up with a long post soon about a 3rd "boating" book that's shapped who Mr.P is.

Not yet, I added it just now on my TBR, thank you!

I thought of you when I saw she had referenced this book!

Best book ever! It makes me mad that circunstances keep punishing them on and on and on and they juat keep on going.

I read an awesome one about exploring the Colorado in 18 c. That was BONKERS.

https://www.wob.com/en-au/books/edward-dolnick/down-the-great-unknown/9780060955861

😲😲 Theres also the Perito Moreno one, the guy to explored Patagonia by boat and horse and was captured by infians and scaped death

"If Tomorrow Comes." by Sidney Sheldon was the book I came across almost a year ago. I was coming out of a bad relationship, jobless with two kids and no support system. It was the story of a young woman, Tracy Whitney who had all the odds in the world stacked against her.

Her mother was scammed and then committed suicide, Tracy was framed for a robbery and sent to jail. She was abandoned by her fiance and lost her baby. I connected well with her while reading the book. Though I didn't lose a child or experience half of what happened to her, I could relate exactly to the way she felt. I was lonely, I felt abandoned by everyone and I had to pick up the scraps and start over again. I lost so much, and I know firsthand the feeling of loss.

One other part of the book I can strongly relate to is that you can never really count on anyone. It is the people closest to you that ditch you at your worst hour. Tracy thought her fiance was going to come through for her, but she ended up getting disappointed. I know how it must have felt, I didn't have anyone, and the people I thought I had, left me to it.

At times, you find help where you least expect it, so don't be so quick to cancel humanity. People eventually came through for Tracy, in the last place she expected, prison. People who had no ties to me also came through for me and I was speechless. At the end of the day, everyone needs a little help along the way, no one is an island. Despite the disappointing human nature, you should never write anyone off. Don't forget to render help to others too while you are at it.

I didn't know what I was going to do like Tracy didn't too after leaving prison, but somehow, I handled it. She handled her issues too, in a different way and came out okay in the end.

It's been over a year since my terrible experience, and I can proudly say, I did it. I have grown from that lonely, sad, jobless, depressed mother to the opposite of everything I mentioned. I didn't think I could do it, matter of fact, I don't know how I did. I initially thought I was going to cave under pressure, but mercy and grace said no, which leads me to my favorite quote in the book,

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"God will never throw anything at you that you can't handle. Just take it one step at a time."

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I congratulate you for coming on top of your situation! I can why you related to this book, being alone with two kids is definetely a struggle! Thank you for your entry🤗

Wow, this is very inspiring, I just learnt about this content now, I will surely drop my link, thank you so much.

I really like this contest, it is inspiring and deep, it invites you to reflect. A very good way to share what we have grown up with. Thank you very much for making it possible. This is my publication: https://hive.blog/hive-180164/@jemima1996/books-and-life-competitive-empowering-me-with-knowledge-esp-eng

Hugs 🤗

Thank you, I have read it and left you a reply🤗

Thank you for this awesome initiative @creativemary

This is my book entry

https://peakd.com/hive-180164/@loveah/dealing-with-uncertainties-in-life

Curing the fear for tomorrow. Oh a lot of us need to do that. The book sounds very nice, I will definetely add it to my TBR list .

Now that I have read your post I wonder why when we have a problem we always try to turn to Google and search for it. Somehow it is good as at least there you can find an aswer but I wonder if asking someone would be better. I do not know yet but the internet definetely helped many find solutions to their troubles. And if the internet helps someone google and find the right book, then it is a win.

Thank you for your entry🤗

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On wow, just stumbled on this and I must say it is very nice. can't wait to make and entry and spread the word as well for others to come join, This is a hit that I can't afford to miss.

Hey! Maxwell is an expert in leadership, you have picked a good book! Thank you for your entry🤗

Thank you so much, I dearly love reading his books they have so much impact on me, thank you for this Book and life competition, you have done very well.

Ugh, I love this challenge because just like you, books represent one of my biggest passions even though I never created content with this purpose on my blog. Either way, as exciting as it is, as hard will be to only pick one since each of the books I've read had a contribution to me in one way or another.

Either way, I think the most recent one is the most suggestive based on all the mixed feelings I have lately. It's called PS: I love you and it's written by Cecelia Ahern. I bet this sounds very familiar for many who've seen the movie with the same name because I also watched that when I was a kid but only found out about the books last year when I received them as a Christmas gift from my aunt.

There are 2 volumes, the first one showing all the process a lady has to go through after losing her husband because of an incurable disease but who left 10 letters to be read by his wife that will help her move on and continue her life. The 2nd book shows the life she has after she moved on and this is the volume I'm currently reading but no doubt the first one touched my heart more especially since for a bit over a year I had lots of ups and downs in my relationship almost breaking up with just 2 days before our 5 years long anniversary.

Even though we've been through a lot during this period, sometimes we tend to forget that we both grow up at the same time and just like the branches of a tree, sometimes we take curves and follow different paths but that doesn't necessarily mean we have to break up unless we support each other and keep learning to love one another the way we are. Happily, we had nothing in common with the book speaking by the illness the husband had, but their love for each other even when life separated them made us appreciate more what we have, be more tolerant, and never stop rediscovering each other and sharing what we have the most precious: LOVE.

So, based on this book that represented a rollercoaster of emotions just like my relationship was lately, it opened my eyes and made me see things from some new perspectives and angles that proved it's not the time yet to leave but keep going stronger than ever.

Don't ever be afraid to fall in love again. Open up your heart and chase it wherever it will take you... and don't forget, always aim for the moon...
PS: I love you...

This is the quote that impressed me the most which is also the last letter the girl received from her husband that encouraged her to continue her life without him 😟

Very cool :)

It is not lack of love that is the reason of separation but really the relationship.
Either you accept the storms or you move on but people dont change and why would they ? We are all perfect mirrors and as we see in astrology , you should know thyself , not to pick the best partner but to be the best partner.

Damn well said!

Books and love. Combine those two and you will win millions of readers worldwide.
I saw the movie but did not read the books yet.
When you told me about the event in your personal relationship with your boyfriend I could relate. Relationships have ups and downs. But when there is love and respect usually love wins the argument. I am pretty sure that he got to appreciate you more in the moment of wanting to end it and maybe you also gained appreciation for him. Of course there are exceptions when a separation is required and looking back no more is the only choice. I am happy to see this was not your case.
Lovely choice for the book and thank you for your entry 🤗

Yes, I couldn't complete this better. I don't know how much extra appreciation I got when wanting to break up as we both kept saying that we should break up for a long while now but for this moment I can only say that we are both doing alright and act as we did at the beginning of our relationship so I think this is a good sign that we are back on the right path with our thing together. I'm sure you will love the books if you are into romance and drama ones. Also, I am the one to thank you about this contest. I would enter over and over again no matter if there would be a prize or not. It just feels amazing to share a bit more of some unknown passions of yours but with the right people 🤗

There is a saying that no relationship would end if people would treat each other like they used to do at the beginning.
Yes it is amazing to share with the right people new stuff. Because it makes you feel a sort of connection which you would not be able to feel with strangers that have no common values shared with you. I was more than happy to see your participation:)

Thank you dear! You are too kind! <3

Hey there Mary, you have me thinking now what book to review that changed me as a person. I love reading myself. Great contest. As Arnie says "I'll Be Back"

I'll be waiting

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One of the earliest books that greatly impacted my life was a religious book, 'Battlefield of the Mind' by the Preacher Joyce Meyer.

I had just finished high school and was about entering college. That book was my philosophy and still is to this day through the trails and tribulations entering adulthood. I've battled health issues, financial ruin, job loss, heartbreak(s) and my dad has been bed ridden with stroke for 5 years now. It can be overwhelming sometimes, but I always turn to the mindset this book shaped my head with.

My favourite quote is "Your mind can either be a Junkyard or a Treasure Chest, you alone have the power to decide what it is".

Thanks for making me reflect on this. I'd write a longer post if should I muster up the energy

Thank you for this entry, it seems Joyce Meyer is a very inspiring author, I have another entry with the same author, it makes me curious.

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Hi! really what a nice initiative thank you very much for believing it, especially of this beautiful topic as it is the case of books that have impacted us in one way or another to our lives, I wanted to participate but my entry was longer than expected for a comment so I did it in post, I hope you can see it💜.

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I am glad to hear that the story of Nora helped you overcome depression, this shows how powerful a book can be. Thank you for your entry🤗

If it's a great book, the power that the letters have is impressive. I'm currently reading Atomic Habits and it's a great read as well.

Oh another great book! Writing in itself is very healing, even studies have shown that it has numerous benefits

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This is absolutely beautful, thoughtful, and very kind of you. I think it is an interesting contest, and there will be fascinating stories to read. Like you, I am all about heart in context.

I have a question, though. I need some clarity on how to making an entry. I get that one can simply make a comment here. What if someone chooses to make a post about it—regarding this contest—and then share the link right here, would that count as an entry to compete for a share in the 500 HBD prize pool? Or that would only count for "the surprise for the best long post?"

I look forward to enjoying this contest and reading beautful stories. You have a heart of gold for doing this.

Hello! You can post a comment here. And if you make a separate longer post just mention me or leave in the comment a link towards the post. You can do both, it depends on you🤗 please share and reblog the post so many people could find out and participate, looking forward for your entry🤗

That was a rapid response. Thanks for clearing that up.

Have a great Sunday!

Thank you, you too!

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I enjoyed reading you and also the gratitude you express.

As for the contest, I try to participate, books have been part of my life.

Regards

Hey! Looking forward for your entry, there is still time to participate🙂

Norman Vincent Peale is indeed the father of positive thinking and he has a lot of resources in his books to help any person level up mentally. Thank you for your entry🤗

My pleasure @creativemary thank you for having me. I really love your initiative. Thank you for your comment.🌹🌹🌹

Great, I already went to read it, it was very refreshing, I love to read do not worry it was a pleasure and thank you for also making a long post next to the short comment🤗

I made a long post about this already but I'll be highlighting what I've already said about it there, here.



I've always loved the fact that I could be absolutely myself with fiction. That I could get immerse in the world so carefully crafted by the amazing imagination of others. And also because fiction, whether we believe it or not, plays a role in our reality.

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I read Cages by Peg Kehret when I was 11 years old. And the words that emanated from it still speak to me till now. It talks about the value of self-worth. It talks about the need not to despair when we don't get what we want or when someone else is chosen over us. It highlights the fact that because they are chosen doesn't make them any better than us, but it's just that this time round, they were the ones chosen and that's perfectly okay.

It talks about the need to take hold of the minute. To fully understand that every minute counts and that whatever step we take, or whatever things we plunge into in that minute, once it passes, it's gone. And we can't bring it back. It talks about the beauty in taking hold of every opportunity life presents to us.

I talked about, in my main post, about how all of these came true in my life a while back. How I had the rug pulled from under my feet when I wasn't given a role I was sure I would get and how I learned not to discredit myself because someone else was picked. I'm in a better place because I'm beginning to have a more profound understanding of Life, its ups and downs. And how we can make the best of it. By ourselves. For ourselves. Life is a process and we cannot always be perfect. But we're getting it together. Knit after knit. Step by step. Day after day.


A Quote from Peg Kehret's Cages

~This minute is passing. Take hold of it cause it's never coming back.~

Beautiful choice! I can see why this book has reached your soul and remained there as a precious memory! Thank you for your entry🤗

You're welcome. Hope you enjoy the longer post as well.🤗

I love the quote, we forgot too often to be in the moment.

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Thank you so much for this generosity, you are not only giving back to the community but this contest has provided an avenue for people to share and exchange great books that could further impact our lives richly. As I can already see amazing books have been mentioned so far.

May you continue to succeed in all that you do.

thank you!

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At first, we want to thank you for this wonderful open-hearted gesture, Lady Mary.
I remember all of the chats that we had in the past, and I am very glad to see that you are now safe and free. At periods in our lives, we get kicked in the face, and that Shackleton quote is very powerful. Your take on it as well, as it is indeed a solid truth, that getting up is the only choice. I want to add a bit to it, dust yourself off and get going again.

You have tagged some great names here on hive, that helped many of us and even if they were attacked at times, they have remained solid, and such is the way to be. Such is life, is my favorite saying, so we can only learn and move on.
May it be that the sun will light your road and that all darknesses will fade away from your memories. All freedom, love and happiness to you.

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Hey🤗It is my honour to be able to give back 🤗 I never forget my humble beginnings and the people that supported me along the way, you being one of them.

Please share and reblog this post so we could reach as many people and allow them to be discovered as well🤗

It is indeed a privilege to give back and we are trying to do that with the @combination account.
I admire your dedication and your heart my friend.

Shared the post straight after my original comment and have a super Sunday!

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Bianca Sparacino's "The Strength in Our Scars" changed my perspective on pain and betrayal, self-reflection, growth, forgiveness, and healing.
In "The Strength In Our Scars" Bianca Sparacino wrote about the complexity of human emotions, self-growth, and the transformative power of pain experienced in life.

When I read the book, I was going through a phase of betrayal, pain, and loneliness. Reading the book was like getting a hug from a friend. It was like a friend speaking right to your ears and telling you that even though everything looked sucky at the moment, sooner or later you will be okay, and you will get through it. It taught me that healing takes time, but no matter how long it takes, The important thing is to not punish ourselves. The entire book reminded me that I am worthy of all the love and care I give to people around me.

I am in a better place emotionally, I have heard from the book, that I have learned that healing and growth come from embracing vulnerability and acknowledging the weight of my emotions. I have also learned that every tragedy or painful experience in life has valuable lessons to uncover.
We can transform our pain into a catalyst for growth, nourishing our souls and embracing the better versions of ourselves by actively seeking wisdom in every tragedy or painful experience in life.

This book has taught me to forgive myself and others for the pain caused because forgiving levels to emotional healing, which allows me to let go of grudges and resentments.
Loving myself is an instrument for boosting self-esteem and nurturing self-worth. Engaging in self-reflection and inspection is a key that helps us recognize recurring patterns and unlock potential for growth and transformation.

You guard yourself against sadness, not realizing that you have closed yourself off to all of the happiness the world is trying to give to you. Stay open; it is how the light gets in.

Thank you for your entry!

Thank you so much for hosting this contest ma’am

This is so so good just like you I have also received some goodies from hive and am also thinking of what I will do for them just to say thank you for the good work you people are doing in a global scale I so much appreciate your time and kind gesture in bring this offer and rewards to all hiveans who is willing to participate in the context.
THANKS YOU VERY MUCH

I was reading "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, when I did a language summer camp in Bulgaria when I still was a student. Our teacher gave as the book in Bulgarian translation and we had to read it back then and discuss it in class. Reading books in a foreign language is a life changer, because it really helps you learn a language in a natural way. You encounter so many new words and phrases, some you can understand from context others you have to look up in the dictionary and there was no internet dictionary at that time. Reading a book can therefore be both fun and educational.

We are travelers on a cosmic journey, stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.

Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

Beautiful quote! Thank you for your entry🤗

The alchemist is one of the best book !

Hey. So I did make an entry, about two days ago. It was a long post entry titled Playing the Right Cards. Here's a brief summary on it. 👇🏽


I found a particular user here on Hive to quite promising, but his demeanour on the articles of other people was quite concerning. He had been berated a lot by many people and even threatened by downvotes to do better than just "Nice post." I learned more about him by digging afterwards, of course. What I found was interesting.

He was a pretty nice guy with good content about his work and life with his lovely family. What more I found is that he came on here without an onboarder. That made more sense as to why he "didn't know better." Then I thought to enlighten him, but I had to do it in a much different way from what others had tried.

I had to learn more about him a little more and figure out a palatable way to talk with him and let him see the importance of being much more expressive than spam comments. Then I wrote him.

What I did isn't something that people would normally do, and myself as well. I did it, however, because i deemed it worth a try. He received and acknowledged it.

Weeks afterwards, he made a post about everything and how different things have been for him, thanking me as well. And when I check him and his activity, I realised that he had been doing much better indeed.

How to Win Friends and Influence People was were I drew the techniques I applied in discussing the issue with him. I understood that criticism is very ineffective, and that appreciation works way better, among other things.

"Any fool can criticise—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving." This is one of the many quotes in that book by Dale Carnegie that reminds me.


There's more depth to this in the long post, of course. I hope you find time to check it out.

Hey! It is very nice to see that there are people who will take the time to guide new users on this platform. Yes, any fool can criticize and most of them will. I remember the days when I was quick to criticize and I cringe. But I learned a lot since then and I am continously improving. Criticizing is the worst one can do as it does not solve the issue and it also hurts the dignity of the other. In fact the book of Dale Carnegie is like a second bible that most people should read again and again. The book is gold when it comes to figuring out how to extract the best out of any human interaction. You did well in not assuming anything. It is easy to cast the blame instead of trying to find out the reasons behind someone's behaviour. I feel that when it comes to giving a feedback one can always learn and improve in regards on how to do it in order to avoid hurting someone's feelings. Dealing with people the right way when they do wrong is an art. Thank you for your entry!

This is really an awesome contest that brings everyone together to participate in sharing amazing books that touches lives and am excited as well to share mine and participate.

My Entry

Book title: No Excuses
Author: Brian Tracy

This book talks about self discipline where you have to believe in yourself in what you do without giving excuses and going through the book have really made impact in my life to never give up in what I do but to keep pushing for better days.

Two years ago I wasn't myself because of the challenges I faced and this challenges surrounds the aim of achieving financial success. I graduated from school having the hope that I will use my certificate to secure a better job which I didn't then I had to gather money to start a business which also didn't work out and this made me feel like the world was against me as nothing was working fine until I reach out to a friend who advised me then introduce the book "No excuses" to me.

This book was just like a complete version of what I was facing because the way I reason and how I see people around me tells me that I need to put an end to such taught especially when you see people who are your mate doing well in what they do regardless how big or small their achievement is.

Self discipline is what will make that positive impact showcase and this requires consistent effort without giving up. Never blame anyone for your downfall because this is where most people pick their excuses from and it doesn't help.

This book have made me also to realize that accepting responsibility is a major way of eradicating excuses and attracting success. I have learnt that when your self disciplined, you will never have the mindset to give up easily in what you do instead in keep on striving to eradicate your fears.

It motivates you to have the mindset of doing something positive everyday no matter how little or challenging it might be and the truth is when you have no excuses there is no room for regrets.

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Success can be achieved through self discipline and self discipline requires patience

True pearls of wisdom! Taking ownership of a personal failure, financial, emotional or spiritual, is the first step towards maturity and self-growth. A good choice for a book! Thank you for your entry🤗

It's a pleasure sharing.

Self discipline is what will make that positive impact showcase and this requires consistent effort without giving up. Never blame anyone for your downfall because this is where most people pick their excuses from and it doesn't help.

This book have made me also to realize that accepting responsibility is a major way of eradicating excuses and attracting success. I have learnt that when your self disciplined, you will never have the mindset to give up easily in what you do instead in keep on striving to eradicate your fears.

It motivates you to have the mindset of doing something positive everyday no matter how little or challenging it might be and the truth is when you have no excuses there is no room for regrets.

FANTASTIC !

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