Living with regrets and doubts? Ways you can manage them

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I have made certain decisions and actions that have left me filled with regrets and I know I am not the only one who has experienced things like this.

These regrets have left most of us unhappy with ourselves and sometimes filled with doubt.

We find ourselves trying really hard to move on from our decisions and actions but the effects of those decisions we made and the actions we took keep on weighing us down.

Regrets and doubt have left me stressed out exhausted but I have realized that there are ways to manage regrets and doubt.

Here are some ways to manage regrets and doubts:

  • Our regrets and doubts create this image of our lives where we are constantly hunted by our actions and decisions. Until we decide to look past this foggy image, we will be unable to live above our regrets and doubts.

    We have to realize that these deep feelings of regrets and doubt won't last forever and will surely pass over a period of time.

  • Most times we feel like the best option of overcoming our regrets and doubts is by running away from them. I have tried it and can I say, it isn't worth it.

    Running from these feelings is like a rat race. You never win. Live through these feelings, breathe through them.

    Running from won't make your life anymore better of productive but getting engaged in something productive despite the regrets and doubts is the only way to live above these feelings.

  • Speaking positively to yourself is a vital step in managing regrets and doubts. You are human and you are allowed to make mistakes. Being perfect shouldn't be the goal, what should be a goal is becoming a better person. Until you realize these you will continue to drown in regrets and doubts.

  • Growing through these experiences is something we should all look forward to. Yes, these experiences are challenging and exhausting but you can always discover yourself through these experiences.

Our regrets and doubts will continue to bring us down if allow them. We have to live through them and hope for a more fulfilling life after the storm.

I HOPE THIS WAS HELPFUL