Hello, everyone.
I welcome you to my blog. When it comes to relating with other people, a lot of factors come into play, one of which is your type of person as an individual. We have those that are extroverts and play a major role in keeping the social life going, those who just like the outside world and can most likely get along in the outside world better. We also have those that are ambiverts; they fit in in ways whether I'm Bert's or an extrovert; whichever way you bring the dance to them, they will blend in whether cold or hot because they exhibit both characters of extroverts and introverts. Well, last but not least, we have those who are introverted like myself and just cannot fit into public places and try to avoid it at all costs.
Trust me, we are all humans, but all have different personalities. Some are the outgoing type, and some are those who want to be left alone. There are also those who want both; they want to be left alone, but at the same time they are outgoing and want to relate to the outside world no matter how much it costs. We cannot all be the same, and we cannot judge a person for their character. If many people could help it, they would have changed who they are or their personality to fit into their friends circle.
For me, I am introverted and really do like to be left alone. Not many people believe me when I say I so dislike phone calls; just text me on WhatsApp or text message instead of a phone call. I don't know why, and it is not pride, like some people would call it, but I still cannot help the situation. Sometime ago, a friend said we became introverted because outside is expensive and the only way to avoid it is by staying indoors. I have heard friends complain and threaten not to reach out to me again since I hardly do unless they do, then I will apologize and beg, and I feel they are starting to understand now that I just cannot switch to being the type that enjoys phone calls.
The only way I know I reach out to friends and family consistently is by texting and chatting on WhatsApp. When it comes to checking up, we can actually do it via text and not necessarily through phone calls, and I do like it that way, though I have been forced to adjust for a few people who cannot accept my own style of reaching out, so now I reach out via calls but not frequently as I do more of texting. I have also had friends complain about me not wanting to visit them; this one is something I hardly do, and in this case I cannot change to please anybody because I find it very difficult to leave my room unless it's important. My introverted lifestyle has affected my relationships with people sometimes positively but in most cases negatively, causing me to have very few