Hello beautiful people. Brother, you have been seeing this lady/girl/woman for a while and you feel something for her but your mind is limiting you to approach her.
Your instincts is telling you that she's not your class and won't listen to whatever you have to say.
You suddenly dashed into the thoughts that since you don't have money at the moment, you need to hide your face, because she won't accept you.
This mentality is eating deep into the lives of many men. And it's affecting masculinity.
How?
This kind mindset will always rob you off the kind of bold and confident man almost every woman desire.
As a man, one thing you should know is that; when it comes to the game of wooing and attracting a woman, it is not always how much you have in your bank account or your show of affluence that will make her accept you.
I've seen men who can't even stand and talk with a woman for just 5minutes because they lack the confidence. As if a woman is one kind of a goddess that no mortal can confront.
I've seen men who jumped into self-condemnation/judgement because they think every woman are after money. They be like, since every woman needs money, there is no need of going after a woman. Let me go and hustle, as to get money and have any woman I want.
Yes, women need money just as everyone needs money but most times, a woman will not fall for you because of money.
Ask yourself, if women fall for money alone, why is it that those guys who you consider as bad guys who don't even have shingbai in their bank account get high quality women that submits to them.
See, it's all about your masculinity and not about money at first.
Women hardly resist men that brims with masculine energy at first sight.
