Bro Eli Soriano gave us a very great advice in this video. He said we should not promise anything. That making a surprise is better than a promise which we would have to fulfill by force. That is such great wisdom. Promising what you would have to fulfill by compulsion is not good.
Teaching our children honesty is very important. Teaching them to keep their words is very vital to their growth and development. Honesty is a very good virtue. Learning to keep our words is very important. Our children should grow to be honest and trustworthy persons. They would learn that from us. So, the example we are showing them matters a lot.
One of the examples we show to our children is in the case of making promises. We need to be careful of what we say and what we do. Making empty promises to our children is not good. So people think that because their children are kids, they can deceive them at will. That is not good. Don't tell the children what you are not ready to do. Don't promise them what you won't be able to fulfill.