Turning 30 Is Not a Big Deal!

in #hive-1909312 months ago

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Let me be honest with you guys, I really want my 30th birthday to be special. I want to do something new, something fun, and something that I never really did during my birthday. I really just want my birthday this time to be something that I will remember forever. I want to host a simple party with my family, where I will dress up, decorate our place, and just have fun on that special day. I want a cake. I want to experience blowing a candle once again. And I really, really want to dress up, then I'll hold a number balloons while I will also take a lot of photos with it and with my oldies.

Dress Up with something cute and with pets

This is how I want my birthday to look. Even just in my room, I'll just turn it into something cute or pretty. Then I will dress up, wear sandals or high heels, and maybe I will also go to a salon and let them take care of my hair. Like I will do something I never did before, just for the experience. And I really want to look pretty - or maybe just presentable —to look more human on my 30th birthday day, lolol. This is just a once in a lifetime experience, and I really want this day to be something I can look back on with a happy heart. Browsing on Facebook gave me this idea, and seeing those celebrants having this kind of celebration, I can't help but to envy them.

How about something grand and expensive?

I really hate that I feel that way, because it can give me a lot of ridiculous ideas. Still, I know I'm free to do it, seeing how fun it would be not just for me but also my mother's urging me to really just do it. But, even though I want my birthday to be celebrated this way while wearing a beautiful dress and pretty heels, I know I would feel so awkward wearing it, especially since I don't like to wear dresses. I like dresses. That's why I love to play dress-up games, but I only enjoy it when it's the other people who wear it - I don't enjoy it when it's me who'll wear it. Lol. I still really prefer my black old shirt and my cargo pants.

How about something cool and sexy?

And another thing, preparing all these will be a bit of a hassle. You know, in the past during my birthdays, I always planned to prepare a home-cooked meal for my family, but I always ended up getting pizza with ice cream, no special dish or whatsoever. It's not bad, and seriously, as a practical person as I am, this kind of celebration is cheaper but still meaningful and happier <( ̄︶ ̄)>. I mean, it's our favorite food, a comfort food for us actually, so it's not bad and much preferable \(^o^)/. But I just thought my 30th birthday was kind of different from the other birthdays I had. That's why I want to make that day extra special ( ꈍᴗꈍ).

Or something modest and shy but with a make-up of temptress?

But I want it, but I don't want it at the same time. So, for tomorrow, my birthday, I'll just do what I usually do. It'd be just another normal day for me. I already had my birthday celebration anyway, in Xentro Mall with my Mama Ading and Mommy F last week, it's an early celebration that Mommy F planned. That day is one of my happy moments that I'll forever cherish because we had a lot of fun, we had a food trip and a good stroll inside the mall. I'm happy that I'm still alive, and I'm grateful too for the new life, especially now that I reach this age. I feel so blessed despite not achieving something huge, still, I am so so so happy.

But wait, I'll turn 30, so I should really try something daring and mature, no? Should I errrr - should not! Lol

That's already big enough for me. Thanks to my Mommy F for this wonderful treat, I had the best time ever last week ┏(^0^)┛. And Cheers to being 30 ┏(^0^)┛.

Now, those screenshots of "dress me up the way I want" above are from the game Love Nikki. And because they happen to have the outfit I want, I used it to show them here. I know the way I dress up is really just "gahhh," but seriously, I don't really know how to mix and match clothes (≧▽≦). I'm stupid when it comes to that kind of thing. I am always the plain Jane, and it's just hard and expensive to be fashionable, so I drop "being a fashion artist" on my head. Lol (≧▽≦).

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HAppy 29.9999th Birthday! hehehe

Hahahaha natawa naman po ako sa with .999999 HAHAHA. Salamatsuuuyyy <( ̄︶ ̄)>

30......try being nearly 50. hahahaha

hope you have a great day

Haha I have a looooooong way to go, i'll be very lucky if I reach that age 🤩🤩

Happy 3-O 🎂🎈 may all your wishes come true 😁

!HOPE
!HUG

Thank youuuuuu, all I wish is a healthy life, happy life, and money 🥺, hahahaha

You got the priorities in the right order, hehe

Happiest birthday ate @ruffatotmeee, may you lead a healthy and prosperous life aheadd, I wish you all the best

Thank youuuuu, to that healthy part, I really need to try working out now, not just a drawing na. Huhu

Happy 30th! hope you had a great time & day!

Thank youuuuu, I'll nake this day a happy one 😊💪😂🤩

Happy birthday, Ruffa!
Pang ilang greet ko na ba ‘to? HAHAHA

Go for it, even if it’s uncomfortable... even if you have second thoughts. Who knows? You might even find yourself enjoying it while you’re doing it :) Enjoy your 30th birthday! ✨🫶🏼

Hahahaha dami na, thank you ng madamiiii, uwu.

I'm sure i'll enjoy it. Baka doko lang kayanin awkwarness huhu

HALA DZAI 30 KA NA PALA!!!!1
HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYY

Hahahahaha, di ko kssinsimasabi lagi age ko no, lahing pa joke HAHAHAHA. Salamatsuuuu, ang tanda ko na 🤧🤧🤧😂

3 years lang naman agwat natin oi! kala ko naman super tanda mo na 🤣🤣🤣 sana madami kang pagkain sa birthday moooo 😊😊

Happy birthday to you!

Hello, thank you so much 😊😊✨

Go for it! Have fun or perhaps, go out go somewhere alone to unwind.
Discover life

Sana kaya ko mag travel alone kaso very dependent ako kay mader hahahahaha. Ayaw ko lumabas huhu. Pero happy naman today ┏(^0^)┛

Happy birthday for tomorrow which is actually your day now so yeah Happy Birthday Ruffa!

I didn't think you were anywhere close to 30!

Ita todayyyyy, hehehw. Thank you ┏(^0^)┛, thanks to my camera, it make me look like a human even though I'm using normal cam, huhu

hehe Happy Birthday, I just got online now and notice a post notification from you ... so I shall be there to say Happy Birthday Parot and Happy Birthday Ruffa , you can have two birthdays now!

Wow. So you are clocking 30 in some few hours? Happy birthday in advance to you. I also wanted my 30th birthday to be celebrated in a different way from others but I guess God has different plans for us. Hopefully by next year, would celebrate my 31st. No more young, we are getting old, hehehe 😜
I wish you the best of a new journey. Also, enjoy and treat yourself happily.

Ehhhh, so you're 30 now? I thought you're 25 or something. Uwu. But yeah, we're really getting older now and we can't pause it, hahaha. But good luck to us ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ

Hehehe. I clocked 30 this January 😁 I have a much younger face and people hardly believe that I am 30 already.

Omggg I'm late. Happy birthday my friend. Despite of your age, you still looked so Young.🥰🥰

Thank youuuuuu pepita my prend, charrr, haha. Thats brought to you by, OPPO ╮(^▽^)╭, hahaha. Salamat ulit ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

Happy b-day girl! I'll soon get one step closer to being 30 as well and while I've never had in mind celebrating that age differently from before, you gave me an idea about it! But we shall see what life looks like 3 years from now, as I'll turn 27 this Sunday :)

Hihi, thank you ┏(^0^)┛, you still have 3 years before your 30s. I hope we're still on hive when it happen so that we can see it here if you ever decided to share how you celebrated it ┏(^0^)┛

We'll be here for sure! :)

Happiest birthday 🎈🎂, may your life full of love and happiness. Wishing you a long life and happy days with your family.

Thank you for the well wishes, i'll claim that happy days with my fam, hihi

Happy 30th! You don’t look your age so you can still celebrate another 30th birthday next year or in the coming years ruffa hehe 😉

I like like 31 na saa personal 😫🤧🤧🤧😆. Sana next birthday mayaman na 😂😂

A little late but it's the intention that counts ;)
Happy Birthday! Happy 30s! 🎉🎉🤗

Yayyy, thank you so much ❤️🤗. I super enjoy my 30th bday, so much 🤗

Happy birthday celebration

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Happy birthday!
Doing something new is exciting, although I can understand how you feel...being awkward etc. But tbh, it's okay to be awkward or cringe or whatever as long as you enjoy it! All of us have different awkwardness anyway, it's part of human experience so don't be afraid to do what you want. :D Enjoy your day!

Thank youuuuuu, I'll really go with it if only I don't feel awkward talaga. I feel like my oldies will be surprise too if I do that, haha. Tho I really want to try and make this day extra special, a lot of things stopping me now. Maybe I'll just do it when I turn 40, hahaha. Thank you ❤️

That’s okay as well. You have a lot of birthdays to come and it doesn’t even need to be a birthday to do that haha. :D

Righttty, I'll do it for fun or as a challenge maybe, like I should start getting our on my comfort zone. Omg, here I am again with the planning ( ꈍᴗꈍ)

How does it feels na 30 kna? Haha . Look after your health at this stage, lol. Pro madam, enjoy life din.. lalabas kna sa calendar, bka mapag iwanan ka
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Hmmmm, nagsisimula ng pumasok ang kunh ano ano sa isip ko madam. Talaga need na mag seryoso sa life aguy.

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Happy birthday ate ruffa! more handsome sugar daddy charought! More money to come. 😍 Goodluck sa challenges now na 30 kana for sure kung gaano kahirap na nalagpasan mo sa past 29 years mo, malalagpasan mo din ang mga ito ngayong nasa 30 kana! Hehehe

Hmmm...walang masama sa pag try ng new experience and fun sa kaarawan. Go na ate ropa! Dress lang ng bonggasious and decor and party party. Wala ng bawal bawal sa edad mo now. Yieee~

When ba kasi dadating yang handsome sugar daddy na yan, aba'y maeexpired na matres ko eh - charowtttt ahahahaha. Salamat ng marami, uwu

Hahaha wala na tapos na araw,outfit check nga, tadaaaaa

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Happiest 30th birthday @ruffatotmee 🎉💞💖🎈🍾
All the best for you...!!!
Stay healthy and pretty always🥰
God bless 🙏❣

Yayy, thanks for that po, kahit yong health nalang, bagsak na 'ko sa pretty part 🤧🤧😂

Belated Happy Birthday Ate,God bless you and may you have more wonderful years to come 🥰

Eheee, thank you so much, cheers to that wonderful years 🤗

Awwww❤️
Happy birthday to you

Hello, thank you ✨😊