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Than G itΒ΄s Friday!

Last week I tried to compare the Β΄90s vs The Now. I just looked at some simple things like walking your dog and having your kid play outside unsupervised.

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The results were kinda shocking, shocking enough to make me swear. But the worst part was that they highjacked the word liberal.

So just One More Time:

Nowadays peeps confuse Liberal with leftism, but hey thatΒ΄s okay the quality of schooling went down over the years so I guess they can not help it.

And being woke is probably just as crazy as being a hippy in the Β΄60s, or a punk in the Β΄70s.

Come to think of it wokes and punks have the same hairdresser.

Nineties Crazy Was All Show

We had crazy people in the Nineties as well, but we made special shows for those guys and dolls, and the them, theirs & itΒ΄s.

Again I am as Liberal as a Library, I accept everything on the page. But keep your books to yourself I will check it out when I feel like it.

By the way, I should now identify as a Librarian Libertarian because saying you're a Liberal nowadays creates a stigma you might not want.

And Now For Some Good News

Of course, it ainΒ΄t all bad. These new social standards have had at least one good side effect, well together with the Pandemic that is.

The practice of door-to-door proselytizing has become less common overall, as society has changed and people are less likely to engage with unsolicited visitors at their homes due to privacy concerns, health, security, and changing lifestyles.

And I got you to admit there are fewer Witnesses ringing my doorbell than they did my moms. Or did she just say that fancy-looking dude was a Jehovah's Witness so I would not tell Dad?

Back To the Bad

So basically the point I am trying to make is that it all started with those wealthy helicopter parents. They had the money and voting power and therefore caused more government regulation in everyday life.

Their overly protective "I want to know where MY kid is 24/7" mentality created this current risk-averse society.

And the governments were happy to use that risk-averse mentality against us. Their excuse is that they are doing so well protecting us. They became what the helicopter pappies and mammies asked for: a 24/7 Nanny.

And not just for the little ones, they treat us all as kids.

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But I never asked for it, I am a Nineties kid, let me play unsupervised and give a false name to a cop as they had no means to check it anyway.

Nope, no chance in hell. Heli pussy parents made it so that we all have to live in a Nanny state:


The "Nanny State" Mentality: The overly protective governments that go against my classic liberal soul have taken control of individual behavior.

They go against Thomas Jefferson's right to pursue personal happiness

"We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."

But so far I see little pushback from those who believe that individuals should have the freedom to make their own decisions, even if those decisions involve risk.

I mean kids today seem to happily accept they live in a Nanny state where everything is brought to them when they ring their bell.

Fat Is Not Bad

What was a happier thing than getting a Happpy Meal back in the Nineties?

Nowadays McDonald's can not even aim their advertising at kids anymore, come on. I loved those Happy Meal commercials as a kid.

The state protects my kids from McDonald's but not from dope dealers on the school grounds. Because that would be real work.

I am sorry for sounding so Boomerish, but itΒ΄s all a bit too much for me. I want my Nineties back.

You can keep your 347 Genders, your people of color, and your helicopter parents.

I am liberal AF you can keep them all, but give me my Nineties back when I could drive with lead fuel, use lead paint, and die happy like a mad hatter.

But no, they want it all

They changed the social climate and now it all needs to go their way. The helicopter pussies inspired increased focus on public health and safety.

Everything is aimed at reducing long-term healthcare costs and improving overall societal well-being.

Seatbelt laws, anti-fat movement, smoking bans, and bike helmet laws are just a few examples of measures introduced to reduce preventable injuries and healthcare costs.

And you know what, it only makes things more expensive.

The World Upside Down

Now it may surprise you but I have been calling this for years, Smokers and Obese people are cheaper in the long run than healthy fit non-smoking people.

Preventing obesity and smoking can save lives, but it
does not save money, according to a new report.
It costs more to care for healthy people who live years longer,
according to a Dutch study that counters the common perception that preventing obesity would save governments millions of dollars.

ItΒ΄s not only the preventing, and all the costly projects surrounding prevention. Fat Tax, Sugar Tax, and Cigarette tax also go a long way.

Just today I read a whole article about How the Dutch government will miss out on 100 million in tobacco tax just this year.

It has all gone overboard, letting people smoke in dedicated areas. Let them eat McDonald's all day if they want to. DonΒ΄t use healthcare costs as an excuse. It seems we are no longer allowed to die happy.

Health care is for those who care about their health, and if you plan it well those who care less are paying for those who care.

This Nanny state is creating healthy, clueless, mobile-addicted zombies with purple hair. They grow old, sour, and have no clue what the pursuit of happiness really means.

If people donΒ΄t die early from driving without a helmet or seatbelt, eating burgers all day, and having one too many beers while smoking, healthcare costs will explode.

Just imagine having to live without all those vices and even paying more taxes. It just all seems to have gotten a little out of hand if you ask me.

I feel that growing up things looked sunny side up, but if I look back at what happened after the Nineties I wonder where did we go wrong?

The outlook on life as a kid was wonderful, I would almost say happy and bright even though we listened to Nirvana. Maybe it's just a part of growing up that those future plans turn out to be illusions.

That freedom ends up being just another word for nothing left to lose. Nothing more than a word, because they took our freedom. We are all registered human beings, easy to trace in case we F up.

When I think about how I felt back then it would sound a lot like this:

That feeling does not exist anymore, the woke peeps are still screaming but the screaming has become incoherent, and the iPad generation is growing up and will soon be able to vote...talking about scary thoughts.

How different the world would have been when M was allowed to be Gen Z role Model.


Bikini Bottom Line

As this is Part II and I said already more than enough I will keep it short.

If I look at the world today using my Nineties eyes I just go like this:


Thank goodness you made it till the end Pees, Love and I am out of here!


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But some ideas are music, movies, television, sports, or really anything Nineties related.

I assume movie, tv, or music topic reviews or talk will be most common, but you could also talk about a sports memory or something else.

Think the Pop Culture of the times, but it would be great to hear about little known and interesting bands or entertainment items. Don’t forget to use tag #NinetiesFriday

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I think the trend was just starting in the 90s to spoil kids and treat them like royalty, I still remember the mantra, kids should be seen and not heard! Treating them was the exception and not the norm..


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Kids are kids and such be treated as kids, not as young adults. Clear rules and boundaries and clear actions if they are crossed provide a good clear framework, something to hold on to. It does not have to be the; "because I say so" world as well but there are limits for a reason.

But what concerns me most is that parents nowadays work a lot. Or at least spend many hours away from their kids and when at home they are on their phone, even when they take their kids to sports or the playground.

Thanks for the pick! !PIMP

I lived my teenage years in the 80's and it was a hell of a lot different for kids in 90's and forward. Kids became more spoiled but they also ended up with helicopter parents and couldn't go out on their own anymore. In the 80's we'd be out riding bikes or hiking all day. It was great, kids can't do that anymore though!

Yeah, I think there was a huge difference between the decades too. I mean in the 80s i spent much time outside running on train tracks and getting into all sorts of mischief. I was actually ran over by a car going to the park near the end of the street and my parents were nowhere to be found. They just let us outside and do what we wanted. In the local shops we had a "tab" for ordering sweets each day too!! The 90s were more my teenage years.

Jerry Springer... Maybe he was to blame for reality TV in the long run. People liked seeing all the degenerates on his show, yelling, screaming, and fighting... Then there was Ricky Lake... Fun times.

Great choices on the music and movies. A very different time, so much has changed it's kind of scary.

Man, if I didn't think you were cool before, you just totally blew me away. Throwing out the Petra man. Just stop! I think On Fire was the first cassette I ever bought. We used to have a local Christian bookstore and I would sit and look at all the cassettes. It was either that or some Carmen album. On Fire, This Means War, Beyond Belief and Petra Praise the Rock Cries Out were on my regular rotation though. Along with Whiteheart Tales of Wonder and Powerhouse. My brother in law has a Facebook group he started a while ago that covers the old Contemporary Christian Music that we grew up with. I used to get the CCM magazine every month too!

Thanks---and then lost for words. I come across some very cool CCM stuff every now and then for my Sunday posts. Its really not big overhere, or if they are big we often do not even know that the band has a CCM background. But I think we agreed on this before there is def. great music to be found in that scene.

Haha, yeah, I know I fanboyed out a little there. I don't listen to the music as much as I used to, but every now and then I crank out some of my old favorites.

I’ll raise ya! Petra was my first concert ever! And Whitehert opened. It was 4th grade. Newsboys were my second in 5th grade with Steve Taylor opening…

Never heard of it but Petra sounds a bit dated.

I've seen Steve Taylor and newsboys as well. Never Petra and never whiteheart. Great stuff!

And some guy Ian opened up before Taylor. He (Ian) later become frontman for a Christian band called Bleach

Man this conversation got me thinking of way way back!

Haven’t heard this stuff in decades!

That Bleach bands first record ⬇️

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLdNRg9NspQMhlF21k5pFqcBFhmoAD5fu1

Yeah, that was a good album. Skillets first album too. My brother in law went to college with the guys in Jars of Clay.

Next we gotta talk Audio Adrenaline & DC Talk πŸ‘€

I followed AA up until about Bloom. DC Talk until Jesus Freak. I Haven't heard anything from either of them after that.

Ever hear of β€œJohnny Q Public”
Or β€œHoly Soldier”. All Star United

Nope, sorry!

Basically same here. I think I bought the AA album after that but I was discovering other music by than and mostly moved on.

!PIMP Nice one, I guess I have to fold.

My first was the Rolling Stones, no clue about grades but I was like 10 years old

Carman!!!!! Haha Man U talking my childhood! I first got into punk cause a band called MxPx was sold in Christian book stores. I had copes if friends CD’s on blank tapes but until 6th grade was only allowed Christian music. Actually MxPx covered a Petra song on a tribute album!

When it comes to Christian punk I was always more of a One Bad Pig guy.

Don’t know β€˜em. I’ll have to check en out. Don’t even get me started on Nineties Christian Ska πŸ˜‚β¬‡οΈ

Contemporary? Eh what’s that? Micheal W Smith & Amy Grant πŸ˜‚

Give me that rock! πŸͺ¨

Yeah, pretty much anything besides hymns actually.