My Naija people!! How una dey!
We all have different perspectives, views, and ideologies about life. But at times, we come to a solid agreement on some things. I think most people believe that we get to meet each other in life for a reason.
At times it might seem odd, but have you ever wondered what would have happened if you were born into another family entirely different from the one you are now? How would you cope? Just try to live some days with other families and then see how it looks on the other side apart from your immediate 
If it's wealth, some families have a lot of them but never have peace for a single day. You get peace of mind but not much wealth to live a dream life, there are just countless instances we get to make about life, and at the end of it all, we get to appreciate our relationship with everyone around us.
Most times my roommate when I was in school wondered why I don't mingle with people that much but those closer to me would always have a nice time knowing me. On his end, he is friendly and also likes to relate with anyone, even strangers. But it seems like I am just the exact opposite.
One day I had to tell him the reason why I don't just relate with anyone but some certain set of people that show up in my life. The reason is that I cherish every friendship and when I have more than I can take then it would be difficult to give value to the important and essential ones. So why don't I just stick to the important ones and give them all I can?
From the beginning of my year in the university, till I graduated, I didn't make friends with just anyone, apart from my friend who happened to be my hostel mates from the 100 level.
I never knew he was from the same department, and I hardly knew him in the hostel too, since we are both freshers, but the moment I realized he was from the same department, I tried to know more about his personality before getting any closer to him.
I never had a regret doing that because he was just my type of person. I felt I could roll longer with his kind of character. And ever since then, we have been together even till now that we’ve graduated.
It’s not about having much of a tooth that matters, but is the tooth strongly active? What's the use of not cherishing the little people around but you wanted to cherish the crowds? That's just the way out of it.
My family, friends and even if I am in any relationship I will always be the type that has less but important ones in my life.
I believe if you are not meant to be in my life then I guess our paths would never ever cross each other. There are billions of people in the world out there. But why didn’t they show up in my life?
I also cut relationships easily, it takes me no time to figure out the black sheep among those in my life. And once I detect you are, then I think fishing out is what's left between us. That's my life and the kind of relationship I want for myself and anyone that comes my way. I know it might be weird but that's my choice.
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