Hello beautiful friends. Welcome back for the last edition of week 151. I'm so excited to be back because I kind of love the topic for the day.
Prenuptial agreement is what most developed countries use today in our world instead of the love that we use to have before. Is so unfair how things have turned today. We have men and women who don't trust each other again even when they are going to stay together for the rest of their lives. Is a pity because marriage was sopposed to be for better for worse. In richer and in poorer. In sickness and in health. Till date so us part. But the reverse is the case today. When things are not working out as planned everyone will decide to go their separate ways. But one thing that is clear is that most couple today go into marriages because of the financial gain. Buy it wasn't like this before now a d that is why our parents had a better marriage than ours, because they went into marriage because they are ready to stand for each other.
WHAT IS MY TAKE ON THE TOPIC?
I believe that love should be enough for a lady to enter into any marriage. That is applicable for both men and women. If I don't love a guy I should not even go with him into such relationship. Do you know why? I love myself so much that I can trade my happiness for wealth . How can I love my comfort, my right, my happiness, my space, my freedom, my everything just because I want to be with a man that when we are not together again his wealth will be shared and I will have some to myself. I can definitely make my own money. I don't need anyone to share his wealth with me if he doesn't love me. I love myself that much. I can't advice anyone to do so either. Especially for the ladies, a lady should be loved and cared for. So, because of that I believe that she should marry a man who is ready to go all the way to protect her and provide for her too.
WHAT CHANGED?
While I may be blaming our youths today for entering into marriage as a contract, I will also say that alot have changed. People are no more reliable like before. Women of today just need money and they are not ready to stay with a man when things are no longer available. Some men also are no longer faithful to their wives. Alot to talk about which I know that if you are reading this post now, it is not new to you. So in respect to all the happenings in our world today everyone is being careful. No one wants to be with someone that will cheat him or her tomorrow. But nevertheless, I think that we still have some people who are ready to be faithful to their partners. Though they may be few, but they still exist.
ANY SOLUTION?
Yes I believe that for any problem there must be a solution. We need to look for true love. Of course it does exist. We can still find it among us. Don't give up and go into such marriage as prenuptial agreement in the name of marriage.
This post was inspired by the hive learners community contest for week 150: edition 3
